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friend problems =/
hey, this isnt really a question but here it goes. i have been thinking about some of my relatioships with some of my friends. i genrally(sp?) have alot of friends, but i recently realized that im not like really good friends with any of them, which i think is important for (especailly a girl) to be able to do with a friend. liek one fo my friends which i pretty much see everyday, has told some guys some very personal secrets about me, and i got mad at her and over time forgave her. then somthing came up and i lied to my friend and she got mad at me for telling a lie, and i completly understand why, but then she has been lying to me alot latly, and when i get mad at her shes just like "god, dont spazz". so heres my question...what do you think i should do about this friend of mine. we're not in any kinda of arguement right now and i want her to kno what im thinking right now but i dont know how. i also still want to be friends with her b/c she is alot of fun to be around and we get along with eachother alot of the time. pleaasseee help!(sry if this is long)
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this is kinda a hard situation. i think that the problem with everything is that you two are a lot alike. and since your so much alike, you butt heads a lot. it wasnt right of her to tell personal secrets about you - especially to a buncha guys. and i also dont blame her for being mad once you told a lie. but since she has been lying a lot lately - you have a right to be mad back. and if she is rude ("god, dont spazz") about it, then thats not right. i kinda have a friend like this - and i know its super hard because shes super fun to have. you dont wanna risk just coming out and telling her - because your not exactly sure how to tell her. i think you should just wait until you feel the moment is right. and then just be honest. try not be rude or like bitch-ish. just say it nicely, and be like i dont really understand why sometimes you get mad at me when you do the same thing, or soemthing. you know. thats like not rude but still straight to the point. gooodd luckk
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