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my mom
15/f
when i was like 12, i would spend all the time that i could with my mom. i would actually hang up on some other friends on the phone to hang out with her. when i turned about 14, my mother maybe thought that i favored my friends over her (not true) but w/e. she probably just thought it was weird i wanted to go out with them and not want myself to be seen in the mall w/ her and stuff. but you know, that was normal like a year-two years ago. but she believed after that that there was only one way to get to a teenager. it was to talk to her/him in like foul language and get into AIM and myspace and all that. i guess its kind of cool my mom likes myspace, but not to the extreme she takes it. she goes on there at 6:00 in the morning to check if i have any comments. i never get to see when i have new comments and stuff because she looks at them first. she even responds to them! i think that is crazy and is insane and i don't know what else, but she can't just talk for me on myspace! its just wrong! i'm not saying it for any reason other than i like MY words to come out of MY mouth and not anybody else's. that really isn't the only way that she can through to me, and she KNOWS that i like her better than my friends because i don't really have any friends, well girl-friends that is. i only have one. the rest of my friends are guys, because i just get along better with them because i'm not in competition with them and we don't get jealous of each other and stuff. so, really, why does she get this way? i don't want to get into fights with her anymore..... does anyone have any words of wisdom that can help me here? thank you in advance
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well i suggest that you either get a new myspace/aol/aim or change your password and odn't let her know what it is. and then if you can make your own account on your computer. i think that the reason your mom is doing this is because she feels that you and her are seperating as mother and daughter. maybe she feels that you're embarrassed to be seen with her is because thats normal for a teenage girl to go through. i bet that your mom just wants to get closer to you to spend a little more time with you. maybe for you to tell her that you love her once in a while. thats all i ahve to say..good luck and have an awesome summer! bye
-.christina*
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change your password on myspace/AIM/AOL and whatever else you have
and dont let her know what it is
make your own section on your computer (if you can) with your own password
also, if you wanna freak her out, try and get into it
be like "omg mom! we should so totally say im at like a party or something, so then everyone thinks im really cool! and maybe we should tell girls that i have this really hot bf that i hook up with all the time so they get even more jealous!"
reverse her thinking
anyway, i hope it helps... :)
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i toattly understand when i became a teen i stoppted going everywhere with my mom and just wanted to hang out with my friends maybe your mom just feels like she loosing you talk with her about the way you feel get her her own myspace and maybe plan one day out of the week or weekend to spend with just her
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let her know how you feel. tell her that you don't mind that she looks at stuff on your myspace, but you would like to reply to everything yourself because it is your name attached to her words. she'll understand. also, maybe she would like her own myspace. offer to help her get her own! i know a few people whose moms are on myspace.
or maybe you can introduce her to facebook. she could very easily reconnect with old friends through it, from high school and/or college.
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