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i love someone
I am 13 female and I am not sure if i am gay but I have a big crush onthis girl I have never loved girls before,been with a girl or kissed a girl.I went out with boys only.I really love her and its making me love sick and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to end.I am not sure if she feels the sameway about me and if I tell she might panic and tell everyone and wreck all my friendships
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i dont want to tell you what to do, other than to not listen to what Krupple said about picking the opposite sex. its not society's choice, its yours. many will accept you for who you are, not what sexuality you are. in time, you will figure out what you really are and you wont be unsure of it. but for now, its all up to you.
peace ♥
jaimee
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Yeah there's a good possibility she'd panic. I'd say if you've felt the same way about guys, you might be bisexual. If you have a choice, it's always easier in the long run to choose the opposite sex. It causes less social controversy.
Luckily you're a girl and bisexual or even lesbian girls aren't ususally hated. If anything I'd come out about being bisexual before you reveal you like her. You might want to wait a few more years depending on how conservative your school is.
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There is a really good possibility that she WILL panic, not want to be around you anymore, and tell everyone. That's just what a lot of kids do at 13. I'm sorry, you seem really distraught over this...that's why I had to give you my two cents. I don't think you should say anything because your age is a very volitile one. Having a "crush" on a girl doesn't make you a lesbian, maybe you are and maybe you aren't. I think it might be just that there are many things about her that you really like, maybe you wish you could BE her in a way. Maybe you think she is really beautiful and are mistaking your notice of her looks as romantic attraction. I would wait until your a little older and less cofused about your feelings before expressing them to a potential partner.
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