ok so i have been best friends with this girl for 5 years and we dont get into fights very often but when we do its always hard to forgive and forget.. ok so on monday of this week i didnt go to school and she called that day after school and we didnt answer so she left a messgae. the next day i come back to school doing my normal routine and she comes up to me a asks me why i wasnt in school the day before.. she said it in a very rude way a way i didnt appriciate.. so her other friend comes up and she says to her lets go to my locker she was asking both of us to go.. i sed no i want to wait her for my other best friend.. so they go to her locker and she comes back to where i was standing and says "why are you acting like a bitch?" and i just could not grap into words what she was asking me. things were dead silent and then the 2 minute bell rang and i just left. i've been rly mad ever since. she is telling eveyone what happened and saying things that arent true such as that i am going to beat her up. one of my friends told me she got mad like that bcuz her uncle died... another friend is telling me she is denying she ever said i was acting like a bitch people keep telling me things i dont know what to do. its not fair what shes doing she always takes things out on me then makes its so people will be on her side and i look like the bad guy. i could easily get ppl to not like he but im not gonna go down to her level. everyone is saying i should't be her friend. what should i do??
thanks in advance and sryy its long!!
Just explain things instead of letting all of these rumors make you upset. You'll be surprised at how much better it is to actually be communicating with the girl instead of hearing it from the girl's friends.
daddysgurl37 answered Thursday May 25 2006, 1:59 pm: ok i think you r being a VERY GOOD PERSON to not sloop down too her level of childness i think you should not be her friend anylonger if she is goin to call you a bitch and also tell other people lies i would never be her friend if she did that to me!!hope i helped Amber=) [ daddysgurl37's advice column | Ask daddysgurl37 A Question ]
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