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help un break my heart
hello i have a situation that i'm really not sure about i don't know who really to ask so i figured out side help is the best advice so here gose i have a really close friend i met almost 8 years ago and i know i was still a teen when we met but i fell hopelessly in love with him and been this way ever since he lives about an hour away from me and this is one of the reason we never got together but for the first year i never met him (i met him though a good friend there related) but we use to talk on the phone for hour's on end and it was fun we were just friend's i never thought of him as anything else but when i met him i knew he was the one for me and agian i was young but something told me and still tells me that where ment for each other we kept close connection's for about 2 1/2 year's than he got a girlfriend and stopped talking to me all together and told me that he though of me like a sis he dosen't remember this but i women never forget's we stoped talking for almost a year and when they broke up he started talking to me again just not as much and for the past 6 year's this is how we've been we talk every so often and we alway's talk like we've never stop he know's my feeling for him i'm not shy about talling him and he tell's me he loves me still to the day but also say's he not in to long distance relationship's which is understandable i've tryed everything in my power to get him to open up to me because i want to movve by him to see what happens between us but my only problem is that we really don't talk much any more. his friends that i know tell me i'm wasting my time but i don't see that because in the past 8 year's he's alway's returned to me and he alway tells me he loves me and we act as a couple when were together but have never really been together not that it matter's i've tryed to stop talking to him i moved and changed my number it lasted almost a year than he kinda kidnaped one our our friend that i'm very close with and made them bring him to me . i've tryed to give him and altamatum by telling him that if he didn't want me than that was fine i'm happy to move on but i need him to tell me that or he has hold over me i told him that if i didn't hear from him by a certin date i would just know but again he called two day's before and made everything a lil better i want to be with him more than ever but i don't want to move away from all my friends and family for nothing and i'm fankly sick of the run around he's been dealing i'm know in my 20's and i've never really had a ral relationship because of him everytime i get close with some one he pop's p in my head and i can't get emotional with the person i'm with i hold back my heart cause he keeps me waiting i don't want to loose him but i all i have is what he tells me and what his freinds tell me. i know he cool with me movin by him he's offered to help me find a place and move but i'm very scared and i don't know what to do i want to put this all behind me and have a couple of time but just hearing his voice bring me back if you could help me it would be gravely apprecated i thank you for taking the time to read my messed love thank you bie
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hey, you guys should meet up to talk and hang. keep doing this and see how it goes. who knows what will happen = ]. cait♥
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ok how about he meet you and see how things work out. how old is he? have your family with you and he'll just meet you at your family house
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