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hey everybody oits me sportychick! i love giving advice! im a nice person but when someone makes me angry then im not so nice! but i have a godd personality! bye!! i like to hangout with friends, im a cool layed back person but i like to have fun with friends
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well ok i was seeing this guy for almost a year and i loved him so much and still do and mah best freind who has been mah best friend for leterally mah whole life was gonna go out with him shortly after we broke up...mah question is that even though they didnt why do i still feel mad at them, is it the fact that they even thought about it i wana get over it but it so hard ya know what should i do???
yours truly CeCe
what you should do is... just move on in life.. dont think about it go out and have fun..... be yourself and dont think about it..if oyu need anymore advice then holla at me
I apoligize if this is in the wrong catagory. I was not sure what this would be considered as, but here is my question: I'm 16/f and I am unsure if I should go out with this guy. I am a devoted Christian and I pray for God to help me through a lot of this. But I am still unsure. I always give people a chance, because I believe that you can't really judge someone until you know them. Well when I met this guy he asked me out, but my other friend tells me he does drugs, he smokes, and he has this "bad boy" reputation. He's a really sweet and caring guy. And I kind of like him. But I don't want to end up going the wrong path if I am with him. And he's 16/m. What do you think I should do in this situation?
If you need more information about this situation you can e-mail me at xxmcrfan15xx@yahoo.com. Thank you in advance.
And I am sorry it's a bit long. I tried making it as brief as possible!
what you should do is reamin friends with him and see if he's the person people say he is.. just see his personality and if he is not a good guy then dont be with him just remain friends..go with what you think.. its ur decision
I work with this really great girl that I didn't initially have feelings for, but as I've come to know her, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not good at picking up girl's signals, but it looks to me like she flirts with me a lot. Laughs at my jokes, smiles a lot, I'll catch her staring every now and again, but I've misread these signals before.
Plus she's got this boyfriend who's kind of clingy, emotional, neurotic and all this. They've been going out for awhile and live together, but they won't anymore starting this fall. He'll be in another city and she has said that they don't have near the chemistry they did earlier(I guess that can be said for everyone though) and that she hadn't broken up with him yet because of the way he might take it.
So I guess the question's pretty obvious. Do I take the chance and tell her that I truly care about her and potentially ruin the friendship, which is very strong? Or do I say nothing now, take no chances, and wait until the fall when they're not living together? Or just quit being a dumbass about it and move on, which is probably what will end up happening in the end anyway? Thank you for your time.
you shoulds tell her how you feel.. then tell her that she should break up with him if she want.. then tell her dont be scared and go for the shot...
hello i have a situation that i'm really not sure about i don't know who really to ask so i figured out side help is the best advice so here gose i have a really close friend i met almost 8 years ago and i know i was still a teen when we met but i fell hopelessly in love with him and been this way ever since he lives about an hour away from me and this is one of the reason we never got together but for the first year i never met him (i met him though a good friend there related) but we use to talk on the phone for hour's on end and it was fun we were just friend's i never thought of him as anything else but when i met him i knew he was the one for me and agian i was young but something told me and still tells me that where ment for each other we kept close connection's for about 2 1/2 year's than he got a girlfriend and stopped talking to me all together and told me that he though of me like a sis he dosen't remember this but i women never forget's we stoped talking for almost a year and when they broke up he started talking to me again just not as much and for the past 6 year's this is how we've been we talk every so often and we alway's talk like we've never stop he know's my feeling for him i'm not shy about talling him and he tell's me he loves me still to the day but also say's he not in to long distance relationship's which is understandable i've tryed everything in my power to get him to open up to me because i want to movve by him to see what happens between us but my only problem is that we really don't talk much any more. his friends that i know tell me i'm wasting my time but i don't see that because in the past 8 year's he's alway's returned to me and he alway tells me he loves me and we act as a couple when were together but have never really been together not that it matter's i've tryed to stop talking to him i moved and changed my number it lasted almost a year than he kinda kidnaped one our our friend that i'm very close with and made them bring him to me . i've tryed to give him and altamatum by telling him that if he didn't want me than that was fine i'm happy to move on but i need him to tell me that or he has hold over me i told him that if i didn't hear from him by a certin date i would just know but again he called two day's before and made everything a lil better i want to be with him more than ever but i don't want to move away from all my friends and family for nothing and i'm fankly sick of the run around he's been dealing i'm know in my 20's and i've never really had a ral relationship because of him everytime i get close with some one he pop's p in my head and i can't get emotional with the person i'm with i hold back my heart cause he keeps me waiting i don't want to loose him but i all i have is what he tells me and what his freinds tell me. i know he cool with me movin by him he's offered to help me find a place and move but i'm very scared and i don't know what to do i want to put this all behind me and have a couple of time but just hearing his voice bring me back if you could help me it would be gravely apprecated i thank you for taking the time to read my messed love thank you bie
ok how about he meet you and see how things work out. how old is he? have your family with you and he'll just meet you at your family house
well at my school there's going to be a dance. i have a dress already but not shoes. but anywayz i'm not sure if i should go. i mean like, i'm afraid it's going to be wack. and i KNOW no one is going to ask me, but should i go?
note- a semiformal i'm 13yrs.old and in eight grade
you should go.. even though no one asks you dont let that stop you from going or either ask someone to take you.. you know you always have to learn from your mistakes.. your very welcome!! im glad you said thanx
Ohhhhhhkay. So my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile - I'm 18/f, by the way - and in the beginning of our relationship, I thought his mom liked me.
I even heard her say she did once. But as we've been together longer, I've gotten to know her better and I don't really like her...I mean I do, but there are things she does and says that I really, really don't like. I think she's picked up on that, and she doesn't like me.
I don't know if that's WHY she doesn't like me, or if she's one of those "no one's good enough for my baby!" types of moms, but whatever the reason, I think she dislikes me. I've also been told she doesn't like any of his girlfriends.
His dad seemed to like me too, but I'm not sure about that, either, now.
I...guess I want to win them over, but I'm not sure how. I've never had the issue where a boyfriend's parents didn't like me. It's usually my parents that don't like my boyfriends, but they like him this time. Odd.
At first it didn't matter to me at all, because I wasn't really in this for something serious, but it kinda got serious, and now I care...which is kinda bad...help?
Good spelling and grammar please...!
okay what you should do is confront them about it and ask them questions like if there making smart remarks then tell them exactly how you fell dont disrespect them but confront them in a respectful way and say if you dont like me then tell me because youve been doing stuff lately that's been throwing me off..
There is this guy at my work that I'm about 95 percent sure likes me. The think is that he is really shy. He's also one of the supervisors at the store (not mine). I'm a basic worker. He is only 21 but very mature for his age and I am 28.
Well about a month ago I got invited out for drinks with some coworkers and he was there. Although he didn't talk to me I caught him smling and staring at me when I danced on the speakers. But at work the next couple of weeks he didn't talk to me so I thought he didn't like me.
A couple of days ago I asked someone in his department about him. She said he was single and very shy and embarrassed easily. I think she caught on that I was interested and told him.
Well yesterday was I ever shocked when He came up to me and shyly asked if he could use my pricing gun. This is the first time he's EVER started a conversation with me. I suspect that he was just using this as an excuse to talk to me- after all he's a supervisor a huge department a has a million things to do- he could have sent one of his workers to do this. I also caught him staring at me later.
So my question is do you think he's interested in more or am I just imagining this? Also how should I act around him at work now without getting all embarresed? Note- I am also shy.
yes , he is interested in you!! matter of a fact you guys are both shy around each other... so its okay.. all youhave to do is talk to him and build it up to a friendship and you know go on from their
Weird situation here.
Or is it a situation at all?
I'm 13, and a girl, and this year I started at a new school. Our grade is reallly small, and there are 2 kind of...defined groups of girls. One is the preps, who get a lot more attention. The other group, which I'm pretty much in, can't really have a name, or label, because we're all really different.
Ok so at lunch today, it was so annoying, they don't talk. And it's not like they're just not talking to me, I know they're not mad, they invite me to their houses a lot- they just don't talk to eachother. No one is mad or anything, it's almost like they have nothing to say. They're not into fashion, or music, celebrity stuff, school, any other girl stuff, or any other HUMAN stuff. It's like they never watch the news, either. There is a never ending list of things to talk about in this world! They just don't say a word. When I start a conversation about ANYTHING, all I get is a "uh huh" or "mmhm".
I don't really think these are my friends...I mean we never do anything friends do. We've had like 5 sleepovers, and they were all really boring...to me at least...like I've never been mean to any of them. I'm not really sure if they like me. I am, what you could call "acquaintances" with the other group of girls, but not real friends. And I can't be friends with them because I'm just not preppy and I would never fit in with them. Even though I hear them talking about stuff and doing stuff I would always do.
I'm really confused because I've always had a best friend at school...and now I don't. And I really hate it, and I don't know what to do. If you read all this or you can help thank you so much...
ok what you do is find a friend that has something i common with you.. its okay if u dont have anything in common because she can turn out to be a really kool friend. and just make conversation with people... and like try to adapt to different type of people... well good luck on having a bestfriend..
well just because you dont have any friends in your grade that doesnt mean you still cant have friends.. try to be friends with someone in a higher grade than you make friends everywhere you go it dont matter how you look it matters if you are looking lonely its okay just make friends everywhere
so theres no one to meet outside your school?
we'll how about you get into some activities and meeet other young girls like you you can be in volleyball, academics, and other things good friends aren't just going to be in your school im the same age as you i met people outside my school also.. so try doing that it will come back to you.