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I like this guy who doesnt even know i'm a girl
I am pretty much a tomboy at my school. I have been on all varsity sports teams since my freshmen year, so basically i am one of the guys. I have long hair like a girl, i look like a girl but most of my friends are boys.
Recently, i have been talking to this guy. He is soo nice and sweet and we have been talking a lot. We walk to class together, talk about track, ect. So, long story short, i have a major crush. The thing is, he doesnt even see me in that way at all and it just crushes me.
My freinds called him (without me knowing) and asked if he likes me and he said "i geuss i never even thought of her like that" So now i have been avoiding him becuase he probably thinks i am some sorta stalker and i'm afraid that it will be awkward. Any advice?
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Having a crush on someone doesn't make you a stalker. You're just like every other girl whose crushing on a guy, and I think it's safe for someone to ask him if he feels the same way toward you. Don't avoid him just because he hasn't thought of you in a relationship kind of way, just keep being his friend and he'll start wondering about what you'd be like as a girlfriend.
Playing sports and being on the varsity teams doesn't make you one of the guys. You are an athletic girl and don't let that convince you that you can't act like a girl.
The thing is that everyone will always have feelings for someone whose not feeling the same way back and the best thing to do is move on from it as if it never happened. And you never know, he might think of you in that way later and change his mind.
-TheTeenGirl
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Don't worry, he's not going to think your some kind of stalker. Don't avoid him though, just act like things are normal. Now that the question was asked, he probably has given the thought of you being his girlfriend a chance. So go for it. Drop subtle hints that you like him. Be a little extra flirty. Good luck and I hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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It's okay... breath... *let it out* Everything will be alright... It's just your feelings...
Well, he'll start to see you differently too, apparently... So I bet the two of you will act kind of weird around each other... or not, I never know... Well, don't avoid him.. just do what you usually do... I mean, he never thinks that you're a stalker... right?? Just be yourself... It will all be fine... I bet he's thinking about it too... It's not just you... It's him too... So don't worry...
I hope I've helped... Wish you the very best luck...
PS: Remember, just calm down and breath... it will all be alright!! ^_^
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