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i have a boyfriend but im not 100% happy with our relationship. there are other guys i have a chance with that im good friends with and would go out with if they were interested and i hate to say this but id probably like them better than my boyfriend. but i DONT want to break up..i feel us breaking up soon, i can just feel it but i dont know. what should i do? thank you
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hey! ok break ups are ALWAYS hard... so it will never be easy to break up with anyone! but if you have to do it, then you have to do it. it's really not fair for either one of you to be in a relationship where one person isn't happy with the way things are going.
you say there are other guys out there who you might have a chance with, but guess what!? by being in a relationship you have NO chance at getting with them... this would be fine if you were happy, but you are not! if you aren't sure about it, then you don't want to be in the relationship. when i have a boyfriend that i am happy with, there is no question about the fact that HE is the one i want to be with! if you are questioning things, chances are you want to end it all.
the longer you wait and stay with this guy, the harder it's going to be for you (and him) to go through a break up! if you want to end it, then now is the best time to do it. it will be easier than it would be if you do it later. why waste any more time being with mr. wrong and pass up opportunities to find the right guy for you?
sit down and have a talk with him. ask him how he feels about everything and decide what it is that you want. if he wants to stay with you, don't let him talk you into staying with him if your heart tells you to leave him.
P.S. if you break up with him, you will probably have doubts about it for the first couple of weeks, and you might regret your decision. this is a normal part of every break up, so don't let it fool you into thinking that you want to be with him! you're breaking up for a reason! :) good luck and let me know if you need more help!
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