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what happened?
17/f
I just moved to a new state this year and it was quite hard but i found friends and i even got a boyfriend rather quickly. one of my male friends strated hanging out with me a lot and i tutored him. He strated getting playful and touchy feely about four or five months into our friendship which did'nt really get to me because that is how i am with everyone. Then one night he told me that he liked me and he didn't say it, but he implied that he wanted me to break up with my boyfriend of six months to be with him. since then, he has avoided me and refuses to talk or even make eye contact with me. the situation really bothers me because i don't know what i did wrong and is disturbing to think that our friendship wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction. it has been two months and he still will not acknowledge me. what can i do if he won't even talk to me? i really want to be his friend. we had fun together and i miss our interesting conversations. what can i do? please help me, i don't undestand this behavior.
thank you
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Breath... relax.. everything will be alright! ^_^
Well, I think you should talk to him... You're his friend, surely you know him better than other people... Just find a right time to talk to him... Maybe he's just sad because you don't like him the way he likes you... And you haven't broken up with your boyfriend for him yet too... (If I'm right) He actually is trying to get over it in his mind, but trying isn't enough... sadly. You just want to be friends, but he doesn't, this is just not working. But if he's really your friend, he will understand. (Or maybe, because he feels that he has crossed the line, then he starts to avoid you so that he won't do the same thing again... and I think it's really nice of him.)
Tell him that you're sorry because you see him only as a friend, no more no less.
It's okay... everything will be alright. Things like this happen to everyone...
I hope I've helped... I really hope I have.
Be strong, be invicible, be woman!! >.<
Just be strong! Friendship lasts forever!!
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