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(f-13) well i don't really know why, but everything's been going wrong lately. I like hate a bunch of people because they pi** me off, poeple call me stupid, fat, and ugly for no reason. It all makes me depressed and there's so much pressure because we're graduating in a few weeks. I have no date to our dance (its a big thing to have a date in our school) and i need to do well on finals. i don't even know what to do at this point. I want to fix things before i graduate because i dont want to leave things messy and be depressed thinking back on my graduation. please help! thanks bunches. xoxo
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Well you must be really sad, I would hate to be called stupid,fat and ugly for no apparent reason, and even so, its not nice to say.
I'm not going to say there isnt pressure, but your going to highschool next year, if you think theres a lot of pressure now, wait until next year.
First something is, dont let people piss you off, its your choice and decision to let them make you feel the way you feel. I know ignoring people is hard, but if you let it go, you;ll be okay, because holding on to little things, it just doesnt help.
Dont worry about not having a date to your dance either, because once again, its the end of the year, make it fun with your friends, you have the years to come with dances to find a date, but enjoy being a kid.
Just spend your graduation with friends, and arent depressed your just at a sad moment in life, depressoin is so much more deeper, and hard to comprehend if your a typical happy person.
& I wouldnt worry about next year, and looking back, because we all have bad times, but in the end we can look back on them and think, oh, how silly that whole situation was.
Trust me, it will all be okay.
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Don't worry too much on things. There will always be a time in your life when things aren't going so great and this is one of those times.
When this happens, we have to reach out to people like friends and family. Tell your mom or dad how bad things are right now and they will probably do anything they can to help you finish off the year good.
I know that it hurts a lot to be called those names that you've mentioned, it's wrong and they are comments that are so hard to deal with or ignore. So that's why you should probably keep track of whose calling you those names and telling the principal or counselor about it and how much it's effecting you.
There are a lot of girls in your school who don't have dates for this dance and it's normal too. Sometimes you have a date, and sometimes things happen and you'll have to go with friends. It's not something you should dwell on or be ashamed of.
The best way to feeling happy is reaching out to people, not closing your door and being alone
-TheTeenGirl
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