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So, me and my mates go out alot,usually chat up a few guys, get a few numbers and sometimes a new boyf. Its all good, but usually when we're at whatever place we're in, the guys we chat up are usually hanging out with their girl mates as well. The girls chat to us, ask us if we fancy any of their mates, and 'would we like on of the guys numbers?' and so on, and usually the girls are really nice. Me and my mates thought it would be cool to stay in touch with them and hang out sometimes, but we never do. The thing is, to stay in touch with any of the girls we meet you have to get their numbers. And we cant exactly say "Hey, can I have your number?" to them ecause it will sound like we're lesbians or something. Is there a way of getting the girls numbers so we could make more friends and hang out with them that wont sound like we're chatting them up? Cos we wouldnt chat them up, we're girls that are into guys, and would just like some more cool girl mates. Any ideas?
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I understand what you mean, I don't think they'll take it that way though, but you can always try to bring it up in the conversation somehow, like say" you know we should all go to th movies" or something like that, or say you want to plan a day together, and then just say that you'll call them when ever your plans are free and then they will have a reason to give you their numbers, as long as they don't think your asking them on a date or anything like that you should have good luck, ^_^ hope his helps
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hey. i dont think that you will give the wrong message if you ask for their numbers. just say... "hey, you seem really cool, do you think that we could hang out sometime, you know, just as friends." or you could just say... "hey i want you too be my friend because we get along well and everything, do you like what to go to a movie or hang out with my friends tomorrow?" it should work out fine. and if all else fails, just say, "hey im not a lesbian, but if you want to hang sometime that could be cool" ;) hopet this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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hey, well you could maybe ask one of hte guys for the girls number. say like wow "christine" sounds cool i might want to hang out with ehr sometime can i hvae her number? or find an excuse to ask the girls. like say she interested in reading and you havea bookclub. be like if your interested heres my number. then she will give you hers. thats what usually happens. cait♥
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