ok, so i have this really good friend. we'll call her suzy. and suzy always wants attention, so she like acts all loud and stuff and thats just how she is. but this time i feel like she went over the line. today we were all hanging out at a friends house, and our guy friends were there two, one of them i kinda like. so like i was wearing a thong and she knew i was wearing one because im wearing gouchos and your supposed to wear a thong with gouchos so theres no underwear line, ya know? and so she pantsed me in front of all the guys and their jaws just dropped and i turned bright red and pulled up my pants and ran away as fast as i could and sat there in a corner for 3 hours. i couldnt show my face to them. i felt so humiliated and i wanted to cry, but i wouldnt let myself. so then she didnt even talk to my for the rest of the night and she just gave me dirty looks like i did something wrong.and now i dont know, should i just act like nothing happened and move on? im in a fight with her rght now online, and she keeps on being like "it was a joke, why are you getting all mad?" and all my other girl friends are on my side. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? molly008 answered Sunday May 14 2006, 10:58 am: personally this *suzy* girl to me doesnt sound like friend material. no true friend would do that. im so sorry about that happening because i know that i would just feel terrible. but if all of your other friends are on your side i dont know, do you still want to be friends with *suzy*? because if not then stop your friendship but if you want to fight for her friendship then do. but make sure if you remain friends to tell her how you felt and maybe she'll understand. and tell her never to do the things she did to you again because they can hurt. and tell her if she doesnt get that then maybe you shouldnt be friends. or if you really hate her you could pants her in a public place while she has gouchos on, jk because thats mean. so i hope i helped, tell me how it all works out and ask me if you need any more advice. -- molly [ molly008's advice column | Ask molly008 A Question ]
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