ok well i have this thing with my best friend well i kinda have two bestfriends...well like my other best friend lets name her tessa and the other girl amy well like with tessa i have a really good time with ehr cuz we have alot of thigns in common and i also have fun with amy but like with amy it seems like we are drifting apart mostly because i hang out with tessa all the time now..well anyways tessa and amy dont like eachother well there liek sorta friends but tessa gets annoyed of amy...and like ive been feeling really really guilty lately because i havnt been hanging out with amy and sometimes i cry myself to sleep because i feel so guilty..like i try and hang out with her but when i do it just isnt the same as it used to be....so help me please i want to be best friendw ith both of them.
TheTeenGirl answered Thursday May 11 2006, 10:47 pm: Well, try doing the things you do with Tessa. If you and Tessa really enjoy going to the movies, then ask Amy to go see a movie with you.
You may not have as much fun with Amy as you do with Tessa, but maybe you could find something you and Amy really like doing.
As for these guilty feelings, you'll feel better if you talk to Amy about the way things have been. Tell her that you really want to catch up with her more and hang out more and she'll probably feel better. You can still be friends with both of these girls, but maybe you should try getting them to be better friends so that you all can be together. I'm not sure what annoys Tessa about Amy, but maybe she should try giving her another chance so that you won't have to stress hanging out with them both equally.
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