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party/commitment
on friday night, i have my friends party. we are going to get our nails done and then we are sleepoing over. except theres a few problems. i have a double header softball game on saturday against a REALLY good team. my parents already said i can't sleepover because i'd be too tired for my game, so i have to come home at midnight. the other thing is that on friday night i was asked to play an older leauge game becuase they are missing some players. only 2 girls get to move up for the game, and my coach and the older teams coach both said they want me to play up in the game. i really don't know what to do becuase my friend is already pretty pissed that i am missing some of her party, and now i might have to miss more. i play in a travel softball leauge, and it really is a hugee commitment to play. i really don't know what to do becuase i dont want my friend to be mad, but this softball thing is a big deal! i mean, there will be other parties to go to but i may never have the chance to play with the older team again. pleasee help im really stuck on what to do!!(i'll rate high<33)
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I can understand your friend's point of view....but this is a big opportunity for you and she should be able to understand that.
Try to sit down and talk to her about it. Explain this is a big chance for you and she needs to understand that as much as you want to go to all of her party, she can't expect you to give up something like this. If she is a real friend, she might be mad at first but she will understand.
What you might need to do, however, is to try to make it up to her by getting her an extra present or taking her out somewhere after her birthday. Something to let her know that you do care about her birthday and did want to be there and to thank her for not going to hard on you when you didn't do it.
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deffenitly go to the game becuse well if your friend is really your friend she will be happy for you and support you not be pissed. and she sounds kinda tempermental if she is pissed already...hope this helps!
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If she is your true friend she will understand why you have to miss her party but if she is not than the only thing you have to do is follow your heart.
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