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Again with the Boys.
Me and Ross went out for quite a while, but we called it off. After we broke up, we often caught each other starring at each other, then we'd smile and laugh it off. He hasn't talked to me much since we broke up, and when he found out I still liked him, he told everyone he hated me and liked his other ex-girlfrieng Kaitlyn. Which I know is not true, cause he really hates her, and some of his friends told me he's lying about her. He won't answer my calls/texts, and when I try to talk to him he walks away. I don't like him anymore, but I just wanna talk to him and straighten everything out. What should I do?
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I think the best thing to do is leave him alone, because if he is avoiding you he probably has reasons, and anyways the best thing to do is let the situation cool down, I know it may be hard because you just want the conflict to be over, but wait it out, & forget about him, if he still wants to be anything, he'll come to you.
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I know that this is not the answer you want, but if he is going to act like he hates you and wants his ex-girlfriend back, then he doesn't deserve to have things straightened out with you. He doesn't at all deserve to hear from you or have a second chance.
Whether he really does hate his ex-girlfriend or not, he's a jerk and you shouldn't worry about him because the two of you are over. Now, I could be wrong, but I have that intense feeling that you want to get things better between the two of you because you might still like him a lot and if it's true, it's nothing to be ashamed of even if it's been a long time since you called it off with him. There is nothing wrong with still loving a guy who isn't being respectful to you now, but there is something wrong if you try expressing that and get back with him.
I always say that it's ok to have a crush or be in love with someone who is hurtful or just disrepectful, but it's not ok to actually put those feelings in action.
My point is that you've tried just about everything with this guy. And if anything has to happen with the both of you, HE needs to step up and apologize to you. He should be the one texting you and calling you and getting a hold of you in any way possible. Not you. Working something out takes two people agreeing to work it out. Not just one person chasing the other. Let this break-up start a clean slate in your life. A fresh new start, no Ross, no Kaitlyn. No contacting either one of them.
-TheTeenGirl
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