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okay i seriously think i have a problem in the love life area. im a very down to earth girl and im attractive and popular at my school i guess you could say. there are plenty of guys i could have if i wanted them but its like i'll like a guy for a day or two and then the next day im like what was i thinking? and i'll avoid them by all means possible and i hate it bc i feel mean and im not a mean person. for an example i met a nice guy last saturday but today at school i went down a completely different hallway just so i wouldnt have to see him and i feel like hes getting too clingy too soon. i cant ever like a guy for more than a day or so. but i really dont understand bc i'll flirt with a guy and then they think i like them and i hate to lead people on. what could possibly be wrong with me? and what could i do to try and stop that feeling
please help!
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You're just not ready to date, you just want to have fun. Believe me, you have the right idea. There isn't anything wrong with you, just be up front with guys if they ask you out and tell them you don't want anything serious. Then go have your fun.
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hey! well first of all there's nothing wrong with you, everyone has some kind of a problem involving their love life! but what i think is happening is that you are too picky, and that is causing you to like a guy for 2 days and then look too much into it and drop the whole thing. i'm not saying it's a bad thing to be picky... but you may be missing out on some really nice guys that you could get along with really well! what you should do is pick 3 things that you absolutely need to have in a guy... and they can't be too general either. for example, maybe you want a guy that can make you laugh, is smart and does well in school, and isn't very immature. then every time you start to like a guy, just see if he has those 3 things that you must have in a guy... if he does, then relax, don't dig up any more dirt on him and try to find out bad things about him, and just give him a chance! what's the worst that can happen? everyone has some flaws, but if you just pick 3 things that your guy needs to have, you should look past all the other flaws and still be happy! :) hope that helped, good luck!
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Are you possibly thinking too much about this person, where you're also constantly pointing out their flaws as well? That could be a possibility and seeing and thinking about the flaws may make you think, "Ew, I don't really like that person anymore." And that can make your love life difficult because everyone has flaws. Also, that can just be how you are. A lot of girls will like someone for a day and then just stop and say "What was I thinking?!" I'm sure that if you're patient, you'll find a great guy who'll come a long and you'll want to get to know & stick with. In the meantime just see this as a way for you to meet new guys and test out different types and personalities, etc. Also, concentrate on the positives of the guy and maybe you'll end up sticking with one of them. Hope I helped.
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