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choosing between groups
well im 13/f. i used to hang out with this group of 5 girls. but then 4 out of the five started ignoring me slowly but surely. the other girl stayed with me and got ignored too. the girl and i decided that we would not talk to them as much. then we gave them antoher chance and became "friends" again with the other 4. that happened again 2 more times. so then it was happening again so we decided to make new friends and not talk to the 4 girls forever. it was going as planned. we made new friends and had fun. but then the 4 girls called and said sorry and asked for another chance last night. so seeing that we all knwon each other since we were 3 we missed the 4 girls, so we gave in. our parents knew about this whole thing. so today instead of sitting with our new friends we sat with the 4 girls for lunch. the friend that stuck with mes mom found out. now the girl is forbidden to sit with them and hang out with them. because he mom doesnt want her daughter to hang out with people who ignore her. also one of the 4 girls from the group is labelled as a slut. so the girl who stuck with mes mom doesnt want her daughter to be that. now the new friends we made are mad at us, because we basically didnt talk to thjem at all today. so my mom doesnt really care and is letting me make me own decisions. so now i want to talk to the 4 girls, my friend who stuck with me, and the new friends. i cant talk to all of them. also about sitting with them at lunch. i cant just ditch my friend who stuck with me. but i really want to sit with the 4 girls. my friend either sits by herself or with the new friends(if they forgive her). what should i do? i need help ASAP!
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i'd stick with the girl who stayed with you when the other girls ignored you. since she didn't ditch you, you shouldn't ditch her. and it's not the end of the world if you're not the most popular person in the school, you'll live. ♥
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well the girl who stuck with you is such a good friend! she's what i call a true blue friend. and those girls who ditched you guys, they're not worth it! you should never ditch somebody who has been such a true friend. and i advice that you shouldn't ditch any of them. just make time to spend with both groups (if your new friends forgive you). and about the party, it's not our decision for you to go or not but it's yours. but if i were in your situation i wouldn't go and leave my friend for some party the person that ditched me is having. good luck..hope everything works out! bye!
.christina*
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Well this is a very confusing,complicated situation..
Well first of all, if those girls ditched you in the beginging, they should have known that it was wrong, and they should have never done it.
But you did the same thing to your new friends by ditching them, but if you would have invited them to sit with your old friends, and you all could have been friends. I know its easier said than done, but nothing is impossible.
& who cares what other people think.
This world is way to focused on social status, and clothing brands. If your really true friends with this girl who you think is nerdy, then you wouldnt think shes nerdy. Partys arent all that cool, and its horrible to exclude people. Because you know very well what it feels like to be left out of a group or something you know?
hope ihelped.
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