Ok well my mom is the type that dosent listen. She dosent trust me going to my friends house when the parents arent home. She thinks we going to do something. Thats gets me very mad to cause i try to tell her we wont but she dosent believer me. I lost my trust with her once. I want to get it back but it just wont work and i dont know how. She just dosent let me do hardly anything to get it back. So can someone please tell me what can i do cause i dont want to loose my best friends because of something so stupid like that. Please answer fast because i need to talk to her soon. Kristy.
I know that you are angry about your mom not letting you do things, but this is something you can't change with her unless she says that you can. If she lost your trust because of an issue that happened in a house with no adult supervision, then that is your own fault that you are no longer allowed to be somewhere without adults.
If your mom has always had this rule, then why complain about it now? It's not something that will keep you from having friends, and if that truly is the case, then maybe you didn't choose the right friends. Your friends can always come to your house or another friends house where adults are. If theres anything you should be doing for your mom, it should be respecting her rules and trying to become a more trustworthy daughter to her so that she won't have to set another rule you are angry about.
shygirl66 answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 9:31 pm: Just tell your friends that your having trouble with your mom and say you'll have to be a little scarce seeing for a bit, that is all you will need to tell them, then just don't go over to your friends house when her parents aren't home, or anything else your mom doesn't like. Hopefully that will help. And be on time for your curfue, or earlier. [ shygirl66's advice column | Ask shygirl66 A Question ]
BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 4:58 pm: hey, kay well my mom is the exact same way! trust me theres no way around it, thats just the way she is. i have a similar problem with my friends too. they were like "your mom has way too many restrictions on you". that did cause our friendship to be not as good but i didnt care because that just showed that they werent my true friends. i mean come on they dont want ot hang out with me because of my mom! thats just gay. well anyways good luck. cait ♥ = ]. [ BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ's advice column | Ask BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ A Question ]
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