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alright well my sister is sleeping over my grandmas tonight. except she is too scared to sleep in a bedroom alone and the only person she trusts to sleep with her is me. but, i`ve already made plans to sleep over my best friends house and i can't cancel my plans. now my sister is crying because she wants me to sleep over my grandmas with her, but seriously this is vacation and the last thing i want to do is spend a night with my grandma while forced to sleep in the same bed as my 8 year old pain in the ass sister. and i can't cancel my plans. but my mom (as always) is taking my sisters side and saying i have to make her happy. but i always have to give in to my sister. it can never be a compromise! NEVER its her way or the high way. if i say no to her, she'll either cry until the cows come home or hit me in the head with a shoe. what can i do so that i don't have to sleepover my grandmas and can sleep over my friends instead? i rate 5's
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I vote for you to go to your friends house.
Your sister is acting this way because it gets her what she wants. She needs to act her age.
Tell your mom she isn't helping by making you stay with your sister. :)
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Your mom needs to help your sister grow up. Tell her that. Your sister is being babied and she needs to learn sometime. It would be very good for your sister to be without you. Right now, your mom is being just as irrational as your sister. Tell the both of them that you are NOT going no matter what. After you tell your sister that, give her something she can sleep with to remind her of you. A stuffed animal, a picture, a toy, a sweater of yours, a bunch of stuff, whatever you think will work best. She'll cry, but what you give her will help and she'll just have to deal with it like she should have already learned how to do by now. Good luck!
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you can tell your sister that there is nothing to be afraid of and you can turn on the lights all night long and if theres a tv in the room she could watch tv till she falls asleep ..or even have your grandma read her a bedtime story til she falls asleep lol
or have her not sleep over your grandmas tonight since you have plans and shes too scared to go without you so tell her that maybe tomorrow you both can go to your grandmas and spend the night there
okay well i hope that helped and if you need anything just ask!
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