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Insecure boyfriend
15/f This situation is completely my own fault, but I need advice anyways. I cheated on my boyfriend of 7 months twice recently.. I made a couple of very stupid mistakes and wish I could change the past but I can't. He's great, and he says he's forgiven me, but now he's really insecure. He calls me literally all the time, and asks if I still love him, and if I'm going to leave him. He has these dreams that I'm breaking up with him or going off with another guy, and says that i'd be happier without him. I know I've brought this on myself, but how can I make things go back to how they ised to be? We were so happy until a couple of weeks ago, and I want everything to be perfect again..
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THnigs might never be the same again and if they do it still might not be the same. But if you go places tkae him with you. if you around guys grab his hand and get closer to him. Show him he is the ONLY one.
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♥ Amanda
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hun, Im not gunna get all dr. phil on you by sayin "you did this to yourself.." -although you did, but you already know it. It could possibly be his fault also. If he is not giving a girl her needs, there is no fun in the relationship.
so if you 2 are so great together, what did the guys that you cheated with have that your bf didnt have? it sounds that since both of the affairs were recent, your getting bored of your bf. don't tell yourself that your relationship is exiting... actually think if you 2 have done anything new recently. If you haven't, then just keep in mind that if he doesn't have trust in you, then there is no love. Love is primarly intimacy, trust, loyalty, and honesty. Think about if your relationship has all of those.
if you are still focused on getting your relationship back on track, then do the following:
-go to parties with him and show him your loyalty by only hanging out with him.
-whenever you talk to him always say you love him even if he doesn't ask.
-NEVER give him any reason to think any guy is hotter or sweeter or funnier than him. Make him beleive he is the best thing that ever happened to you.
let me kno how it goes,
-brittany
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Ok how to become like you used to be. The point is, and im not trying to be harsh, is that as you said you brought it upon you. There kinda isn't anythin you can do to change it right now but you do however need to prove him that you are a good girlfriend. I think you need to make it up to him...I mean if my bf cheated on me, I would dump him. I thnk he loves you alot and that's why he's forgiven you but he still thinks you can be out cheating on him and stuff so he's insecure.
Why don't you plan a meal (dinner) or go out to movies more often with him so he kinda knows what you are doing. And when you're around boys (with or without him) don't flirt!
Good luck and best wishes
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