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why won't she just tell me?
I was at my friends house awhile ago i live right next to her.. well anyways we was sitting there watchin tv then she said she was going to sleep then she kept looking to see if i was still there when she looked asleep I went home and got on here and now she is on the internet like 2 minutes after i get on..Why won't she just tell me she don't wnat me there.. i mean dang it hurts more worst when she just lies to me..
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maybe she was just bored of hanging out - i get like that sometimes - and she wanted to be alone so she tried to hint it in a nice way so she didnt hurt your feelings, if it starts happening more often then talk to her and say if she wants you to go then she can just tell you without you getting offended.
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Sometimes friends want to be kind to you, she proberly wants to have some time for herself and doesn't want to sound hurtfull by telling you to go.
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Have you ever had a freind spend the night, and in the morning you just don't want them to be there any more. It's not that you don't like the person, you might just have other plans, or want some alone time. You don't want to tell them to leave though because they seem to be having a good time, or you don't want to hurt their feelings. Some people, like you, may feel comfortable when their freinds tell them it's time to go home. However, others might feel very hurt, or that the freind in question really doesn't like them at all. To avoid these feelings of pain and confusion, sometimes people create little white lies to get out of situations that could potentially hurt their freinds. You've probably done the same thing before yourself, and if you haven't try to see where your freind is coming from. She just didn't want to hurt your feelings most likely. If it still agravates you that she "lied" simply discuss with her that you'd rather her just tell you when she needs some "alone time." If she's really a good freind she'll listen to you and she probably won't mind telling you "it's time to go." Right now she doesn't know anything is wrong, you have to communicate a little. Tell her when something is aggravating you, she probably had no idea. Also, let her know she can tell you when something you do aggravates her! You freindship will be a lot more of a FREINDSHIP if you actually talk to and know about one another.
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I hate that too. My little sister lies to her friends when she wants to get off the phone, she goes "My grandma is calling me, I have to go". It's like just tell her! I think maybe your friend wanted you to leave but it kinda sounds rude if someone says "Can you leave?" You know what I mean. But your right, it hurts even more when she lies to you. Just let it go, if it happens again..you can just tell her that you dont care when she wants you to leave.
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