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what to do
ok well the other day i went to my grams house that i never go to and she said that i can come live with her if i want. i havent said anything to my mom is cause she will blow up at me and tell me that im not there enough to wanna move in. but my grams rules are alot cooler then my moms. im gettin a new remodled room later curfue and more TRUST which is wat i want. pluz she is rite by my friends and my dad. so i wanna go there but i dont wanna hurt my mom or have her get mad at me so how do i tell her? plz help ill rate high.
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i can understand at where your comming from. Mostly the reason why your mom is hard on you is so you can build character. it's a trial of trust your mom's putting out, the more you stick up with it, the more she'll lax. Of course if you really want to you could just go to your grams, but understand something, you siad you haven't learned much of your gram, so when you and your mom are alone ask her about some stuff about gram. You may be surprised what may come out. Just play it by ear and think carefully about this, you have your whole life ahead. so think of those around you before you act out. patiance is the key to the door of opertunity, use it wisely
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Well, before i answer your question, i have some questions to ask you first.
Why do you want more advantages, and why do you want to leave your parents
well, i think thay maybe you should talk to your parents a little and only a little bit each day, and seee if you can maybe try and recieve more advantags. Tell them how you are feeling first, and then let them have their feedback, but dont argue about it, just talk a little bit each day, and if the conversations get roudy, then end the conversation, and simply say, " i think that we need a little calming time and time to think about this, so maybe we can get back to this tomorrow or something, when have had tine to think and calm down."
I hope that this has helped you at least a little bit.
Hev
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tell your mom as nicely as you can, tell her you love living with her and will drop by as often as possible but you feel living with your grams will help you create a better relationship with her and thats something you really want. Your mom will know your serious about this and should approve of the idea more.
hope everything works out the way you want it to,
shandz
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Heyy! Well maybe you could live in with your grandma but work something out. Like a schedule type thing. You could live with your grandmas house everyother week and your moms house everyother week. Also, approch your mom in a friendly way. Tell her hey mom ive been thinking about moving with grandma a lot because _____________. And i was hoping you would let me, i have even made a schedule so i can also spend time with you.
♥ Michelle
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