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what should i do??
okay so theres this boy and he likes me and i do like him to. but hes afraid to come talk to me in school n stuff. i mean hes a freshman n im a sophmore and he has no problem talkin to my bestfriend and i jus dont kno what to do. i really do like him a lot. but its jus bothering me that we never talk and were going no where. i truly though he didnt really like me. but since he told my bestfriend hes moved to a lunch table closer to mine and my friends say hes always sneaking looks at me. so i really jus dont kno wat to do and im SUPER confused
any advice would be great
ill ratte 5 for anythin!!
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you CAN make the first move BUT if you dont want to be subtle and flirt! smile at him just be very welcoming hes just shy and doesnt know what to do but if he knows you like him and he likes you then MAYBE you and your friend and him and like his friends could go hang out. if he feels more comfortable around his friends then maybe thats what you need to do at first! i really hope this all works out for you good luck!
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Don't make the first move, but subtly look hot, flash him a smile, and sit or stand near him and he will probably talk to you. This way he also feels like the aggressor and the more risk factor you are the more he'll probably like you.
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There is no rule that says that girls can't make the first move. If you are afraid to make that leap, and fear the possibility of rejection, then have your best friend engage your crush in conversation. Then approach your best friend while she is still in conversation with your crush. Find out what his interests are, or talk about shared experiences likes classes, teachers, friends, etc. The more you find out, the more things you will have to talk about. But be careful not to fall into the one-sided relationship trap. If he doesn't respond by trying to find out information about you, or keeping up with the conversation, then it is possible that he really isn't interested in you. Remember, if he's not interested, it doesn't mean that you're not interesting, it just means that you guys weren't a good fit. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
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Heyy! Well if he is not able to approch you, YOU approch HIM!! start talking to him more on aim and maybe that will make you guys more comftorable around eachother. I think you guys just need to get to know eachother more.
Good luck
♥ Michelle
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