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I can't keep my mind off of it..
I just got dumped today by my boyfriend. I don't know what to do to keep my mind off of the breakup. What should I do to get back ot my regular self?
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omg sweetie! im sorry! but what you could do is just take a nice hot bath..start off with that! lol it makes you feel better and just not stressed! then go out with your friends..your friends will always be there for you and know how to make you have a good time! go to the mall--look for some cuties there! or just have a good time with your friends. go out to eat or to a movie. you will eventually find another boy hunnie when the time is right! but for now..just go have fun..who needs that boy anyways? obviously he is now missin out on a wonderful person! :]
♥ always--KristenLynn
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go for a walk, take a nice bubble bath! indulge yourself! if your hurting and even if your not you should spend a day or 2 all about yourself. go to the mall with your friends, shop, just get out there and do something! realize that its his loss not yours and make that first effort to move on! go get your nails done or do them yourself just focus on you and try to have fun, if you get caught up in that then your probably not going to be thinking about him of course it will take some time to get over but not dwelling on it will make it faster! good luck!
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Hi.
First, you can try not thinking about him. I'm guessing that didn't work. I'm guessing that whenever you just sit around, you can't help but think about him, what he's doing right now, etc. Well, I have to tell you that you shouldn't expect it to go away quickly.
You can try to have other activities. Keep yourself occupied. Have fun. You need time to heal. If you see him, chances are that your feelings will start to bubble up again, and you will find yourself falling for him again. So, you should try to avoid him at this fragile time. Maybe, when things are better for both you and him, you can become friends or even exchange decent words.
Until then, don't try to initiate anything, coz the hurt will just probably surface..
Honestly, I think the best bet will really be keeping yourself occupied. Have fun and love life. You don't need him, so stop acting like you do. Depend on yourself and your friends. Don't be impatient. Time heals.
So, just wait. After a while, your feelings toward him will wane. If they don't disappear completely, though, don't worry because you just CARE about him. That's not necessarily a bad thing and it just proves that you are human.
Good luck.
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