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i cant take it


Question Posted Friday April 7 2006, 6:48 pm

Okay well your going to think im a whinny little brat and need to get over it but I cant. Me and my mom have been clashing every day for like forever. And me and my dad only occasionally did. But this whole week they both have been yelling and screaming at me. Telling me to fuck off and that there going to call the cops on me. I hadn’t even done anything to them. I barely even yelled. I just broke down in tears. I’ve been crying all week straight and I don’t know what to do anymore. Im at my breaking point and I cant take anything. I used to cut but my boyfriend got me to quit...but im considering it again. Its all snowy and cold out so I cant run away and all my friends are off doing something else. And it seems like the only one here for me is my boyfriend. I don’t know what to do anymore. I just know I cant stay here. Please help. What do I do? I rate 5's.

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Nallie answered Sunday April 9 2006, 12:11 am:
Hi,
I'm sorry you feel so bad. I think that your parents have some kind of problems or pressure that they are not telling you about. It seems that they may be taking that out on you, and thats wrong. Cutting or running away is not going to help, you will feel worse in the long run.

Be sure you don't lower yourself and yell or call them names. Just directly look at them and say in a very mature and calm voice "I am a good person"

Try to involve yourself in activities that you like, focus on school work, reading, crafts or writing. Decorate a small box, like a shoe box and call it your "worry box". Everytime you feel sad, write it all down and when your done put the pages in the box and close the lid. Pretend like your problems are put away for now, and you can start to feel better.

Good luck and I wish you the best.

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pplperson answered Saturday April 8 2006, 3:06 pm:
I know how you feel. It's like my mom thinks up stuff to yell at me over then she's still overprotective. I hate it. My step-dad will yell at her because she'll yell at him them mom will start yelling at me. You just want to make them stop and stuff but you can't. Do you go to church? you could go to a youth pastor or a teacher you really trust or a relitive you can trust. Maybe your boyfriend can help you find someone to talk to you never knnow. I hope it gets better

May God bless you
Jen

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