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friends love life
my friend has this boyfriend and they drive everyone crazy when they're together because it's just disgusting. they won't get off of each other. ther're not making out or anything they just won't literally get off of each other. today we were walking out of school and they were of couse stuck to each other but he started tickling her or something but they sounded like they were having sex right next to me. GROSS. i have a bf and understand how much she loves him but she doesn't get the hint that she needs to save it for when you're home and not in school. get my point??? any advice on how to show her what it's like for us (her friends) looking in from the outside because i know if one of us was doing what she's doing she would be grossed out
thanks for listening i know this was a long one
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Do exactly what they're doing with your boyfriend. She'll probably notice it and thinks it's disgusting. She'll tell you and then say "That's exactly what you always do with ____." Hopefully, she'll get the point. If she doesn't just come out and tell her.
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This is crazy, but my friend is doing the same thing with her boyfriend. Lol, would you happen to be someone I know? lol probably not. But anywho, i'm trying to deal with the fact that my best friend has a weird boyfriend and that they act all gross around people. Your friend is happy, let her be. I know you want to step in and tell her that its horrible, but that will most likely ruin your friendship. What you could do, is have someone that doenst know who they are and say to them, could you guys stop, its disgusting, and making our school invironment horrible. Good Luck!
-Brina
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Your friend and boyfriend are just acting like an immature couple. And it will probably always be this way when you are around them for now.
Later on, they'll eventually start getting used to each other and the "honeymoon" phase will be over. But for now, start asking her for you both to spend time alone more together. Tell her that you miss the times when it was just the two of you and you want to relive that for a night. Try letting her talk to you about this boyfriend instead of having negative thoughts about him and her together. I know it's probably just childish play love, but again, this is a corny phase that you and your boyfriend have gone through.
When it gets too annouying, start hanging out with other friends besides this one. Don't ditch her, just give her some time to settle in with this guy.
-TheTeenGirl
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I'm not sure if this will work, it's hard to get this kind of stuff through people's heads somtimes, but it might be worth a try. Mock them. Get with your boyfriend and act just like them, maybe even a little worse. Really exaggerate it. Make it obvious that you're doing it on purpose and everyone else will laugh. Only do it when you're around your friend. When she walks into the room with her boyfriend just jump on yours and just be completely stupid. Hopefully it embarasses your friend and she stops. If she says anything about it, just say something to the effect of "don't be such a hypocrite" or "well you and your boyfriend do it so it must be okay!" Again, it may not work, but it won't do any harm to try. Good luck!
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