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I'm not in a good situation. PLEASE help I'll rate 5's!!!!!!
Okay. To make a long story short, I've liked this guy andrew for about 6 months now. But for a while I had this boyfriend Ian...we broke up a while ago. Well Andrew has liked me A LOT for 6 months too and now my soposive best friend is trying to steal him from me. I don't want this. I really like...even love this guy and he's just...the most sweetest guy ever. I've had a really tough year this year and he just makes me feel so much better...he means the world to me and we wanna date eachother but my "best friend" likes him. he thinks shes annoying. but id feel bad datng him. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!
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If you really do feel this strongly about this guy then you ought to do something about it. Tell him that you have feelings for him and you were hoping you could be more than just friends. I think you'll find he will be open to this.
As for your friend, I think you can firmly rule her out of the equation. If she knows full well that you truly care about him, she should know better than to swoop in and try to take him from you. This being said, she's not a threat so you may as well leave her to make an idiot out of herself. Normally I'm against this sort of thing but trying to steal a guy your best friend loves is low and if she doens't listen to you then maybe she will listen to Andrew!
Don't feel bad about this. She doesn't feel bad about trying to steal him from you so why should you feel bad about being with the man you love? You need to grab your chances at happiness in life whenever they come along and this may be yours so take it now before the window passes.
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if this andrew guy really likes you then you have nothing to worry about with your best friend trying to steal him. now with the situation with you and your best friend - i think you need to talk with your friend by yourself and tell her about all the feelings you have for andrew. and have everything cleared up between you and her. then eventually the three of you talk about everything. this has happened to me before - i've been in your shoes. so that is what i did- i sat down with my best friend, told her about the guy i liked (that she obviously liked too) and i told her he likes me and we want to date. of course she got upset but we were still best friends and she moved on. Then she found someone to date and we double dated so nothing was bad or weird between any of us! I hope this helps you out!
~4evaurs_21~
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Hey! She can try to "steal" him all she wants but if he doesn't like her, you have nothing to worry. It takes two people to date and if he liked her, he would date her but he likes YOU. Why would you feel bad for dating him? There's no reason to feel "bad" for dating him. You liked him first, right? He likes YOU,right? Then you guys should date? I know your "best friend" would probably be mad at you but try to explain to her that you liked him for a while and I'm sure there's another guy for her but this one is yours. :-)
Don't feel bad. My best friend almost always likes the same boy as me but I don't care. We just compete to see who can get him first. lol
Just play it cool. Tell her how YOU feel about the situation.
I'm sorry if I didn't help you much. I really tried my best. My advice to you is... GO FOR IT!
-Kayla
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How is she trying to steal him? You can't force relationships and if he really doesn't like her, she will just end up getting herself hurt or rejected. If he really does like you I would just wait for him to ask you out or to do something with him. And don't worry about your friend being jealous, that is her problem not yours. She is the one who needs to mature and realize, why would you want a guy who doesn't want you anyway.
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