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So last year in 6th grade i met my friend marissa and we were like attached at the hip for the rest of the year. i was friends with her and being friends with her made my other firends jealos and i lost them... and now im kinda regretting it-- my friend marissa has a boyfriend peter that ive known forever and hes my friend and all but whenever me&her are on the phone she always ditches me for him and says that she doesnt like him and all this crap but it changes when hes around.. so i had enough of it so i told her thta i was mad at her and now shes mad at me. i dont think she has a reason to be mad cause this has been bothering me forever and ive just started to tell her. i know that tomorrow at school we will probably be friends again, but i know its gonna keep on happening. ilove her and i cant live without her, but she is just really getting on my nerves and i dont know what to do.
Helppp mee & ill rate high.
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Put your foot down and tell her exactly every detail of how you feel about her and what's been bothering you. But then you have another tough decision to make... Marrissa, or your other friends. Which one is better? Which one TREATS you better? Which one has been more of [a] friend(s)? Decide... Don't get rid of Marissa but just tell her, "I've been mad at you for a long time but never wanted to tell you because I knew you'd react like this." Tell her the truth and don't beat around the bush. Get straight to the point. Marrissa seems like she has issues with trusting people and telling the whole truth. Help her. Help her find herself and help her be able to tell the whole truth. You guys are friends but yet she's always angering you and that's not how it's supposed to be. So talk to her.
I hope I helped you! I wish you the best of luck, sweety. :-)
-Kayla
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You really need to stand your ground on how you feel but don't push her away. Even if she doesn't have a right to be mad, she is obviously mad for a reason. So just let her know you are still her friend and give her time to cool down. And as for your other friends being jealous and you loosing their friendship, if they were truly your friends in the first place they wouldn't have stopped being friends with you just because you got a new friend. And whatever you do, don't ever let a boy come between you and your best friend. No boy is worth that. You and your friend just need to talk without either one of you being mad. Just have a calm conversation and discussing issues that are bothering both of you but also make sure you both take the time to listen to the other one then respond when they are done. I hope it all works out for you.
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