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Wow. This sucks.
Okay. So, I have this boyfriend.
We've been going out for about a weeks or so now.
We saw each other a lot before we started going out. And this is my first boyfriend in almost a year, so I'm used to being single.
Because we aren't hanging out with each other at all since we started dating I don't feel like he's even there. He goes to a different school and can never see me because neither of us have rides to see each other.
I want a boyfriend But I don't.
I'm not sure if I should wait and see how it goes
or just end it now.
I mean how am I supposed to know if there's anything there if I've never hung out with him?
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There's nothing wrong with wanting a boyfriend but it sounds to me that you're with this guy for the wrong reasons.
Wanting a boyfriend is fine but it sounds like you want an actual relationship and it's too hard to try to have that with someone you never get to see!
Try to find out if there is a reason for his sudden disappearance from your life, in case there's a valid explanation. Otherwise, give it another week and let him go. There are guys out there who you can have a proper relationship with who won't ignore you and this is what you seem to really want right now.
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I think you need to talk to him before you make any decisions. Call him on the phone or write him a letter if you have to. Tell him how you are feeling and ask him how he truly feels. Tell him you really like him but you two never even see each other so sometimes it doesn't even feel like you are couple. Ask for his suggestion on what you two should do. He is a part of this relationship as much as you are. So include him in this. Once you talk to him you should know what to do. And if he doesn't talk to you or tell you anything then just tell him that you feel you two should go back to being friends and you hope that he will remain a part of your life. I hope this helps.
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