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my bestfriend sandra has a big problem and my friends and i dont nkow what to do well shes turning 14 she has small boobs she wants them to grow but she dosnt want plasctic surgery everyn 1 teases her tells her omg go get a breasty surgery she wanst them to grow really bad what can she do to grow them because i feel really upset whn she crys :(:(
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Everyone's breasts grow at different rates. A lot of girls around the ages of 12-16 have that problem. It's fine, don't let her worry about it. How about you cheer her up and tell her that everybody's different, and that you're still her bestfriend no matter how big (or small) her boobs are. When she's grown up, watch her have the biggest chest ever. Just wait and see...
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People all develop at different rates so at 14 its nothing to be worried about. I am 14 and have been in a similar situation to you, I am a little more developed than my other friends who are picked on for being flat chested. Its all a matter of development rate and it will happen for her eventually.
I would suggest talking to her about it, and if the teasing continues get bad tell a teacher or her parents. She needs to know she is normal and if some adults know the people who are teasing her they can be educated on how its not a big issue.
I would show her some pictures of flatter chested celebrities and tell her how amazing they look as well as letting her know not all boys like large boobs, as I have seen in polls in girls magazines.
Best thing to do is be there for her through all the teasing and let her know she is being a strong and good person with her plastic surgery opinions! Hope this helped xordinarygirlx
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Well she`s still young..She`s not even had enough time to develope on having any breast..I`m sure theres more then just her at your school that doesn`t have any..
I can see why this makes her upset since she gets made fun of and everything but theres nothing you can do to change her body sorry..
She`ll continue to grow in the area for awhile everybody developes at different times && ages..i wouldn`t even consider her a late bloomer because alot of girls don`t develope in that area til there over 13..
I suggest you mentioning things like that to her..So she knows whats up && knows nothing is wrong with her..Stay by her side..♥Dez
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First: it's WAY too early for her to be getting upset about this. Because at 14, she's barely STARTED developing. It's like being upset that you don't have a dozen roses when the rose bush has only just sprouted. She needs to give it some time!
But of course that's hard, particularly with everyone teasing her.
At her age, it's very unlikely that she'll find any plastic surgeon who would be willing to operate.
And I'm sorry to say this, but there are NO treatments which will cause her breasts to grow, apart from birth control pills. All the creams, lotions, supplements and other body-part-enlarging products are outright scams. Period. I worked for a company that sold that sort of thing, and I know.
Her final development is most likely to resemble her mother and other female relatives; she can look at them to get an idea of how large her breasts will be by the time that she's fully mature (about age 20 or so). She can also ask her mother and relatives how quickly they developed, since her growth pattern is also likely to be like theirs (although there are exceptions; not everyone ends up looking like their parents).
In the meantime, I'm afraid there isn't much she can do. There are padded bras, of course, but in my experience kids can usually tell when a girl is wearing one. The best she can do is try to learn how to ignore the teasing, and be patient.
But if the stress is totally wrecking her life, perhaps she should talk to a counselor. Her regular doctor might be able to refer her to one; she'd need to talk to her parents about that, of course.
It would also be a good idea for her to talk to her OB/GYN about her concerns.
In the meantime, you and her other friends should continue to be as supportive as you can.
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It's good to know you're very concerned about your best friend and even asked for advice on the net.
Rude remarks can really smart. What she needs to do is remember to look at the big picture. Are her breasts really the most important part of her? No, it isn't. The girl inside is what really matters.
If the teasing gets worse, or if everyone's words or actions make her feel threatened or afraid, tell her to tell a parent or teacher immediately. Nobody has the right to harrass someone or make them feel unsafe.
Good luck to your best friend!
Later!:)
♥teen13
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