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HELP me please!!!
i'm really scared. i think i might be a lesbian! But i dont want to be! But when i think of a girl and a guy doing it i say EWW but when i think of a girl and girl doing it i get all HORNEY and i dont want my friends knowing because i dont want it getting around and everybody making fun of me! PLEASE HELP ME!
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if your around 12-15 its most likely just a stage, most girls go through it, its just a hormone change and some girls become bi-CURIOUS.its not permanent, but if the thought of you being a lesbian makes you uncomfortable, then you probably aren't gay.but if you are and might be in some sort of denial stage, and your friends find out and make fun of you, then they arent your TRUE friends.real friends stick with you, even if your gay.
hope i helped
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Awww hun,dont worry about it.Be proud! you really shouldnt let people get too you,if they call you names just brush it off.If they were really your friends they would understand where your coming from and should accept you for who you are.I have some friends who are gay,and people have really gotten used to it and dont really make fun of them.You might want to talk to a conceloer(sorry about the spelling) or check out a AFA sorta club,its for gay,lesbian,and bi people to meet and discuss stuff you should see if theres one around your area or at your school.Your not alone im sure theres TONS of homosexual people at your school.Remember dont let people bring you down,check your head up high ; ] I hope i could help! GOOD LUCK!
♥ danielle
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Well, I'm straight but whenever i think about a girl and a guy having sex i sometimes think it's nasty, But honestly a chick having sex with a chick makes me hornier than any thought about a girl and a guy. And about your friends, if they're really your friend they may be a little weird about it at first but then loosen up to the fact and be supportive. If i were you i wouldn't tell anyone until i was totally sure. this may sound weird but this is how my friend found out she was... She kissed a guy that she liked and then a girl that she thought was attractive and decided that there was more of a "spark" between her and the girl.
Hope i helped...
xoALIXox
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First of all, how old are you? As you go through puberty, your hormones are odd and they change. It's okay to think that way but even if you are lesbian, you need to be confident in yourself. If you want anyone to respect you, you have to respect yourself and your sexuality. You are who you are and you shouldn't have to change anything for your friends to like you. If you are when if you tell them, they might be shocked, but if they were your real friends, they will be there for you and respect you. People won't make fun of you. There are a lot of people like you out there and if anyone does say anything bad to you, they're lame and immature.
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