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okay I am a lesbian and I'm in love with my girlfriend. I'm pretty sure she loves me to because she tells me all the time. Well she just found out that she is about to have her ex-boyfriend's baby and now she has to pic between one of us. I think of part of her still loves him and there's a good chance she could pick him, but at the same time i feel there's a good chance she could pick me. Everytime i try to bring up the subject about picking which one she wants to be with she gets REAL REAL mad, so I just drop it to save the yelling. I feel like I'm being tagged along, like I'm sitting here waiting around for no reason. Almost like she's only with me to keep me occupied or something. I've lsot all my friends over her and now everyone thinks it's a joke because they keep sayins he's obviously gonna pick the guy. I'm so confused. I have no idea if I should stay with her or not. I do care alot about her but am I making a mistake by staying with her? I need some advice. ANY advice! I'm lsot and don't know what to do.
signed- COnfUSeD* (link)
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well, im not in the same exact situation, but it was close, anyway, for me, i had to pick between two people, either the boyfriend i had for 4 1/2 months or a new girl i liked, i picked the girl and decided that my b/f would always be there as a friend and its been working out,he soon found another girl and we're doing awesome, i say, for you..
the best advice is give her time and love
just keep loving her the way you have been and theres no way she'd pick him.i mean, you guys can stay together and she and him can find ways to work it out, just give her time, comfort her and just be there for her,its probably 3x harder for her to go through, than you, right?
hope i helped
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i'm really scared. i think i might be a lesbian! But i dont want to be! But when i think of a girl and a guy doing it i say EWW but when i think of a girl and girl doing it i get all HORNEY and i dont want my friends knowing because i dont want it getting around and everybody making fun of me! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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if your around 12-15 its most likely just a stage, most girls go through it, its just a hormone change and some girls become bi-CURIOUS.its not permanent, but if the thought of you being a lesbian makes you uncomfortable, then you probably aren't gay.but if you are and might be in some sort of denial stage, and your friends find out and make fun of you, then they arent your TRUE friends.real friends stick with you, even if your gay.
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does anyone kno any inspirational songs?? like songs about miracles or some sort like that. if so thanks
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i think the song
"meant to live"
by SWITCHFOOT is very inspirational
hope you like it!
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i was 132 august this summer i am 160. ive never been this big ever and i feel so disgusting and have been crying the last 2 weeks. ive never had roles, ive never felt so unhappy. i know if gaiend this from not being energetic and being depressed but i need to lose weight fast. like alot i dont care if its not so healthy but i need to lose at least 20 by june, ive been trying hydroxycut but seriously i cant feel anything. help me, its a must i lose 20 by then
please help, i really dont know what to do with myself=( (link)
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well first i must say, i think diet pills are the WORST route to go, they have side-effects and aren't natural.i think the healthiest way to lose 20 pounds is to exercise at least 3 times a week, do cardio/running/biking or some form of a work-out.eat healthy, lots of leafy green vegetables, drink lots of water, if you drink soda, DON'T, its the worst for your body.also i suggest taking multi-vitamins.do it the natural way and if you start now, theres no doubt you can lose 20 lbs by june!
good luck i hope i helped!
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This may sound wierd but im friends with this guy i met maybe 3 weeks ago at a teen dance club im 17 hes 19, i bearly know him and i dont know what makes me feel so much like i need to help him but its killing me that i cant come up with my own solution.
This kid was recently kicked out of his house where he lived with his father and step mother, and that may possibly be a good thing. his father was abusive and it wasnt a good living situation. the last few days hes either been sleeping in his car or finding people to stay with. What hes planning on doing in 11 days is moving back to texas (from new york) and back in with his biological mother who hasnt seen him in forever and who hes only been talking to for 2 weeks. All his friends and his life is here though and hes not even sure if texas is going to work out for him.
i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of things he can do. chances he has of staying here. He did graduate highschool etc and is really a nice guy though obviously he has his issues. This is a last resort for me. idk if theres people i can talk to or what i just need someones advice on this
thanks
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hm..i almost got kicked outta my house too and i had friends(close to family)that wanted to take me in, and i also have biological parents..but i never met them.the last thing i'd want to do is move in with parents i never met or have only known for 2 weeks.living with friends is a no-no.he's 19..he should get a job and find his OWN place ,while still getting to know his biological mother..before he moves in with her and gets himself into something else.so, he could stay in NY and get his own place with the help of his friends to get a job&money.for now a shelter is a good idea for him.hope i helped!
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