hey so here is my latest problem with my ex- so he is coming into town, now he dont want me to pick him up k no problem i honestly did not want to go becuase i dont think that i can handle it. NOw here comes the worst he has my laptop and wants me to meet, i dont know that i can meet him and be sane in all the same day. i would rather just him bring my laptop to my mom when i am at work or leave it at his house and i will pick it up when he is not there but he want have that, he just keeps saying i want to meet you to give it back, i want leave it somewhere. honestly i dont know that i can keep my cool and still see him. i know i have not really explained why we broke up, becuase it is a long story but i will tell you we were together for 3 yrs if you want to know that whole story feel free to im me frankus521or e-mail me at frankus521@aol.com. so what should i do i know i have to meet him but i dont want to cry in front of him or break down.
karenR answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 12:51 am: I honestly wouldn't meet up with him at all. You don't say how long you have been broke up but, its always best to just stay clear away until your feelings are gone.
He knows what to do to push those emotional buttons of yours...you may wind up doing something that will just make his leaving again that much harder.
If you have to, agree to meet him at your moms. Don't show up & let mom take the laptop. That's what I would do anyway.
If you really have to meet up with him personally...keep it public.
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