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upset with my friend for lying
A girl that is one of my best friends did something that I thought was pretty childish. Well about 5 months ago we went up to another town to help another one of our friends with her parents 50th anniversary party. We went up for the weekend to help prepare. Well during the weekend I became close to one of the girls; I'll call her "Gina" that was helping out. We ended up talking to each other the whole time and got along really well. I even asked for her email but then didnt get a chance to write it down. Anyways, during the time that me and Gina were getting along I could tell my friend was getting jealous. She kept saying that we were getting really "chummy". Well I hadnt seen this girl in 5 months because she lives 2 hours away.
So anyways, this weekend my best friend said she was having the friend over whose parents had the anniversary party. I thought it was just her invited. While today I phoned to say hi. I couldnt go over to visit because I had to work. In the background, I could hear talking. I asked who it was. My other friend (not my best friend) said it was Gina. I said "you never told me she was over"! Then my best friend got on the phone and lied. She said "yes I did", so she wouldnt look bad but I know she didnt. So now i'm quite upset. I know she lied because she didnt want me to know that Gina was over because she was jealous. Should i confront her?
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kristin
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Yes, I do think you should confront her. You need to tell her that you are allowed to have more than one friend. She really needs to understand that, because it is not healthy for her to be like that. I have had friends like that before, and it was really hard to have other friends with them always getting upset when I would hang out with another friend instead of them. So I really do think you should sit her down and tell her about how you feel. She probably will not take it well, and she may be mad, but I think it will be beneficial in the long run.
Good Luck..
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