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Okayy i wrote a letter to my best friend who is 14/m and iam 16/f and i've known him for about a year and i'm kinda starting to fell in love with him but i have that funny feeling in my somtuch when you get the "butterfilies" thats mean you are in love right? But anways i wrote him a letter and in the letter it really expressed my feelings and the way i like him and i wondered if i give him the letter do you think he would ask me out? But i have a funny feeling if we do but the problem is that we never hang out we live close to eother but we go to differnet schools its hard tho i really need to spend time with him but the only time we spend time together is on feild trips which it happends often not alot it kinda bugs me. But whenever i ask him to hang out hes like i can't because i have something he waits for the last mintue it gets on my nevrous but i really like himm how can i handle this?
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When you get that feeling with butterflies it doesn't really mean that you're in "love". It means you care about him and that you like him. It's good that you wrote him a letter and expressed your feelings but just because you did doesn't mean he will ask you out, at least not right away. You don't know how he feels and he might feel different from you. He might not want to risk the friendship that you have. He might also be glad that you told him, but that doens't matter.. just think happy thoughts. :] Anyways, since you guys don't see each other much, you should make time and plans to do so. At times he will be busy and you just have to accept that, but whatever he is doing just be his friend and be there for him. He will know how much you care and that you're there for him. Give it some time and see if your relationship will develop into something more.
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