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Question Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 7:07 pm

Heres my story; I know its long and I'm truly sorry but I could really use some help.

I used to be good friends with bailea and ashley; however about a week ago I stopped sitting with them at lunch and sat with my best friends Holly-Beth and Kaitlyn and that whole crowd. Well HB and Kaitlyn are my best friends and I only have one class with them ( I have ALL my classes with Ash and Bailea) and I really like sitting with HB and Kaitlyn at lunch cause we have so much in common. However Bailea and ashley hate me now; they wont admit it but I know they do. Bailea and I used to share lockers and now she moved outta my locker; she refuses to be my partner in any class; if im in a conversation she'll completley ignore me; and she'll do just about whatever it is she can to not be around me.

My problem is; in a lot of my classes theres only a few girls and Bailea and Ashley are my only "friends" in those classes (all the other girls are in like a lil group of geeks and i cant stand them) So now in half my classes if we do group/partner work im left without a partner. Usually I have no trouble making friends im actually really outgoing and i have alot of friends; but this whole situation of them hating me, me being ditched, and such is truly getting my life down. I dread science class cause there the only two other girls in that class so now I'm the loser left out. PLEASE HELP =D


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u_can_trust_me answered Thursday March 2 2006, 7:48 pm:
i know how you feel i had 1st period with two gurls taht started hating me to and i dreaded up eventually it got better somehow i made friends with this one girl who i know hang with alot shes sorta geekish but she helps me witha lot of problems amyb you should talk to those other gurls they could really help you

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Meetmyyimshi13 answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 8:48 pm:
talk to bailea and ashley..tell them how you feel about things..maybe invite them both to your house for a sleepover..you don't need to sit at one paricualr spot in lunch..you can switch one say sit at one table and the next sit at the other..or eat at one table then go back and forth talking at both tables..that's basically what i do in lunch..i switch between 5 different tables..i hope i helped..bye bye

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 8:30 pm:
Do you know where their lockers are? If so slip a note in there asking them for forgiveness. Explain what you explained here that you never get to see your other friends. If your other friends and these friends like each other maybe you could all sit together or try to get you best friends to talk to your friends. After all this if they still don't accept your apology they're not good friends.

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