Ok soI like this guy and i have liked him forever and i meen forever! and well now he goes to a different school and i never see him and the other day i was in a buddy chat with him and my 2 oother friends and the guy i like got mad and i felt bad and called him and told him i was sorry and he said he had to go. Well that isnt really my question but i had to tell someone about that....but anyhoo.....I really like this guy but he is a jerk and its not like he looks good or anything and he is meen to people and to me alot of the time he can be nice but not usually and then he just broke up w/ hid gf who he is still in love with and i am just pulled apart i dont kno what to do i dont kno why i like him im just not sure about anything..........im depressed alot of the time.....my cuz says its just bc im a teen but i dont think that i should be this dipressed. So i guess my questions are:
1. Why do i like him if he is a jerk?
2. Why cant i stop thinking about him?
3. Why everytime i do somthing i see or hear his name or his voice?
4. Why am i so depressed?
Thanxx for all ur help in advance, I give all 5's!
Meetmyyimshi13 answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 8:44 pm: 1. It's cool that you like him even though he's a jerk because it mean there is something there that you can see that no one else can..even if you don't realize it..you have feelings for him because he obviously has some good qualities and you can see that
2. easy..you can't stop think about him because i like him so much..it happens..it's hard to stop and you probably won't stop until you stop liking him..and who knows if that'll ever happen
3. basically it's the same answer as number 2..you obviously really like this guy..he can't be all bad
4. i am not sure why your depressed but it could be because he still likes his old girlfriend..you really like him but he still likes his girlfriend..that's something that could get you depressed..also you said he's mean to you..that could also be why..you should talk to him..try to get passed his jerky exterior..find out what he's really all about..maybe you'll be taking the place of his ex [ Meetmyyimshi13's advice column | Ask Meetmyyimshi13 A Question ]
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