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how do i know ... ?
ok well a couple weeks ago my best friend and i got into this huge fight .. she was mad at me for almost a week and i dont think she knows but i cried a lot and i am 100% sorry and would never do anything like that agen.
as far as i can tell things are back to normal now but how do i know for sure whether our friendship is really mended? i know it will take a while but how doi show her that she can trust me and i would never do anyhting like that again?
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okay what i do is talk to her privatly and ask her "are you sure were good now?" and tell her what you think and if there was anything you can do but heyy dont go to far dont want to be kissing her ass! lol
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wow! well really what you have to do is you have to talk to her ask her how you can make her feel like your her trusted friend again. you may want to give her a little time so let her know that your in no hurry.
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Well if it was that big of a fight that she didnt talk to you for a week, than it might take a while for.. things to " mend back together ". me and my friend fought for a really long time **it was huge** and well we've got to be better friends because i apologized. if you're like best friends i think it might be hard for her to totally forgive you but if youre 100% sorry, and you tell her (( you should ! )) than she should understand. i dont know what the fight was over.. so i dont know how big it was. how do you know if its mended? well, you can just see if she talks to you and invites you places, and tells you secrets and all that normal stuff than yeah it is mended. if not, than maybe you guys need to talk or something to get it straitened out.
XO care
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i think that when it comes to something you did it's hard for your best freind to get over something that really might have hurt her and as your relationship as freinds continues you have to understand that you can forgive but not forget. Give her sometime to think and figure out herself that after all everybody makes mistakes and that everybody deserves a second chance. And so she'll eventually let go and start feeling like she can trust you again. I think you should talk with her about what you feel and if that doesn't work it's upto her to make her decision . Remember don't blame it on yourself cause you are human and nobody is perfect.
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Try kinda making a deal with her. What I mean is tell her a huge secret of yours. Tell her if you do what she did again she could tell everyone. Yes, this puts you in jepordy but now you are less likely to tell and she may be more inclinded to trust you again.
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