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Ok im 14/f... &i have been hearing alot of things about sex. I know I'm going to have it sooner or later but Im scared... does it hurt?
Thats the most thing I'm scared about if it hurts... I don't want it to.. can someone explain to me how loosing your virginty feels=/
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I agree that it is a good thing to know about such a complicated topic like sex, however, 14 years is way too young for you or any one else to even be thinking about sexual activities. My advice for you and all the thousands of bored litle girls is to respect yourselfs and your moral upbringings and concentrate in school or some thing similar, rather than worrying about something that was put on earth by God for adult people to do. Will it hurt? probably im a dude so i dont know, but i know it did hurt my girlfriend and made her bleed a litle bit.
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It only hurts a little bit and only for a little while, but it is different for everone. Two of my friends, for example, had completely different experiences, one said that her first time was fine and didn't hurt, and another said it was terrible, it all depends on you and your partner. Medically, most of the pain is when your hymen is broken due to the fact that it is skin being punctured, and depending on you that could be the only pain you feel.
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The girl down there explained quite a bit. She`s right about how thick the guys penis is & that basically explains why it hurts. And that you bleed, but it`s not alot. Girls who haven`t had sex & finally loses it to a guy, then she will bleed. But if you have sex more often, then you don`t bleed..It does kinda hurt, but then it gets like..pleasurable. Just don`t worry so much about it. It`s okay to start freaking out. I know i did. :P
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Ok... yes it hurts like for a little while.. especially if the guy is kinda big... but it gets better as you go on.. but I mean.. if he gets you loosened up a little bit it doesnt hurt as bad. And you will bleed, but thats natural. I mean.. some girls dont bleed because they've already "popped their cherry" as you might could say with a tampon, and that's possible, but you dont kno that you've done anything because you're already bleeding. But yeah.. it does sorta hurt a little bit. I mean.. it's nothing to cry over, but hey.. the more you do it, the less it hurts.
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