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i miss him


Question Posted Monday February 20 2006, 12:23 am

so i broke up with me bf (of 2 months) about a week ago. We still talk everyday he's my bestfriend. the reason i called it off was because i would think about other guys, and i was confised so i broke up with him. BIG mistake i miss himm soo much . . .he is now going out with someone else and it is truley killing me i love him soo much and i know he still loves me beacasue he was talking to my sister and shes like you really like her dont you and he like no . . i love her. he tells me that we'll get back together soon, but its just killing me i let him go, like i cant even eat and im just o depressed. what should i do?

thanks in advance!


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tribegurl2009 answered Monday February 20 2006, 4:16 pm:
hey "I miss him" plain and simply throw your feelings out there. but do it in private, you wouldnt want to start added drama with the new girl he is dating. If what he said is true, then do it when you feel ready, because whats worse then not being with him?

hope i helped :)

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elliajean1214 answered Monday February 20 2006, 10:38 am:
This happened to me, too. I think that there are 2 answers:
1- He and his new GF have to break up sometime or other, if you just wait it out, or help it along the way :), then tell him how you feel. Or just tell him right now and if he says he won't break up with her then just ask him to not tell anyone and he will respect that.
2- (This happened to me and could happen to you) He and his new GF break up and you ask him out again and he says no. Then you stay friends but then you finally realise "What an asshole!" But if he says yes, then you're all good! :)
Hope I helped and sorry that its long!

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Monday February 20 2006, 10:20 am:
hey well i think he might not be telling you the whole entire truth. because hes saying he loves you yet he is going out wiht another girl. i think he loves both of you. dont wait for him. find someone new. if you really cant resist him and you are sure he loves you and not the other girl to then go for it. cait ♥

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naimee answered Monday February 20 2006, 2:07 am:
Well, first of all. This boy is a retard. No offense, but it's seriously true. If he likes you so damn much then he'd be with you, right? He wouldn't be going out with this other chick & telling you that he loves you and what not. He obviously has feelings for this other girl. You need to have a serious talk with him & tell him that you're sick of the way he's treating you, and if he liked you as much as he tells you he does, he'd be with you. You let him go for a reason, and then he just started dating someone else straight after this. I doubt there will be a future for your relationship.

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UHaves_iHaveAnswers answered Monday February 20 2006, 1:29 am:
well,i know exactly how you feel...trust me you can do nuthing more than just wait because if he says he still loves you and that you two are going to get back together then you must be!! i mean yeah, it does kinda suck to juss sit around and wait for him while he's going out with someone else. if you really like him then you should wait. if you think its best to move on then go ahead, but you'll never know what you missed. but until then dont look in his direction when he's with his new girl, just pretend liek you dont see them and act like you dont care at all. just wait

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deathwillcome answered Monday February 20 2006, 1:04 am:
Well, for one...you broke up with him, you still love him, he still loves you, and he said that you will be together soon...What is the question? It sounds like you have this one all under controll. If you are worried about the looking at other guys thing, don't. It is a reflex that will not go away. No matter who you are with. All girls (or guys) look at someone else when they are in a relationship, it isn't like you are cheating on him by looking at them! Don't let your conceince get too full of itself. Don't worry, if you two are ment for eachother, it will all work out! I hope I helped (with whatever problem you had) and if I didn't tell me! You should remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!

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