Question Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 5:26 pm
ok heres the deal. i am in love with my friend. we talk all the time and i sorta help him wen hes hurt and he does the same for me. i got a crush on him and then i told him. he acted weird so i acted like i was over it cuz i still wanted to b his friend. he loves my bff, his xgf , and my other friend none of which r good for him. my bff loves someone else. his x hates his guts. and my other friend is internet only. we so close. i am all the qualities he listed. so y cant he c me as more? i can try to pretend im over it now but idk if i can much longer...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jammy12 answered Sunday February 19 2006, 6:41 pm: It's kinda the same thing with me and this guy who is my bffl! He's really nice to me and stuff and I recently found out he used to like me and stuff. Well I think the biggest part of this is just that he thinks of you more like a friend esp noow! Well you know best friends can eventually get married so wach out! I don't think it can't happen. mAybe he's just on a rebound and likes his ex's. continue being friends with him and more and more as your frienship develops you'll realise you like him more and now your friendship wouldn't be ruined if you break up cause ya'll will be really good friends [ jammy12's advice column | Ask jammy12 A Question ]
tootsierollsweet999 answered Saturday February 18 2006, 8:47 pm: i know how you feel...terrible like nothing but made the mistake of not doing anything it takes a long time for guys to show there true feelings so sence hes not ganna be showing them ask him be like ok when i told you that i liked you i thought of it as a huge mistake because you didnt like me the same way and now that i have been faking that i have gotten over it i havent its eating me up iside knowing i see you every day and i cant tell you how i truly feel so i dont know what you would want to call this but its creepin' me out!you may like my best freidn but she doesnt like you....im sorry i liek you and im everything she is only more please i liked you for so long and i dont know how long more i can say that (were're just friends)becasue i've been living a lie this may creep you out but now you know how i feel.
dont say it rude just meaing full and either say it too his face or ina note not on the computer.
xomegaroni answered Saturday February 18 2006, 7:56 pm: ask him. that's all you can really do. then you won't be curious. you don't want to miss out on a good guy er anything, so if you guys are meant to be together you will be. maybe he's afraid of hurting you because he doesn't wanna mess up the friendship?? ask him about it. he could like you & not want to say anything because maybe he thinks you only see him as a friend. juss go for it. you don't want to regret things. try being a little bit more flirty/friendlier.
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