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Squared Love
Ahh, a weird subject, I know...
Okay... Well, I have a friend (Friend1) and we're pretty close. We tell each other a lot of things, and he's really nice. I have another friend (Friend2). He's such a good friend to me and to almost everyone... I really like him (I'm not sure if he knows, but I doubt he does.), but he's going out with another girl. Friend1 is really in love with that girl... and he told me that she said she likes him a lot as well. I got really confused at this. I talked to Friend1 about how I felt about Friend2 and he told me that we should try to break them up... but I'm WAY against that. It seems like Friend1 likes that girl more than Friend2 does at times. I really don't want to get involved with their relationship. I'm always hearing how that girl is cheating on Friend2 with four or five other guys... Sometimes, I don't even think that's possible, but I believe it... mostly because who I'm hearing this from wouldn't lie to me about these kind of things. I don't want to say anything to Friend1 but I think that he's really interefering with their relationship and that that girl is cheating on Friend2 because I'm afraid that he'll get mad at me. I hate that Friend2 is so clueless and doesn't believe anything but I know I can't change that. I never talk to him about his girlfriend and the whole cheating situation because I'm afraid that he'll get mad at me also... but since we're really good friends, I figure that I should tell him that it's all true. When we talk, he's always making me smile and laugh. He's always asking me if I hate him... and if I love him. At one point when we were talking on AIM, he asked me if I'd love him forever, and I wasn't sure if he was joking or not so I just said, "Sure..." and he began sending me all these happy smiley faces. It feels like he likes me at times but I'm not sure. Ahh... I'm so confused.
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Don't get involved!
If the guy you like ever finds out you had anything to do with his break up he'll avoid you
the chances of you gettting together after that are extreamly slim. If you do get together he'll never completly trust you. Us your head! Don't be stupid!
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i think you should let FRIEND2 know what you do. it's juss being honest to him since he's your friend. don't make it seem like he has to do anything with that information, juss say "hey you mean a lot to me & i'm juss watching out for ya" something like that. it's a bad idea to break up relationships. i mean i know some cases where that happened & then the couple that was broken up, juss ended up going back out anyway. plus it causes drama & it isn't really fair. wouldn't you want your bf be with you because he likes you & not juss because his past relationship was broken up?? it sounds like he likes you though so i think you should tell him & juss be honest & explain that you aren't trying to hurt him but you really care a lot about him.
-hope that helped!♥
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