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Girl Problems (what else?)
13/m
Ok, well, im a tad unpopular (Guys like me, girls....not so much.) And I have a crush on this girl, shes really pretty, really nice and everything. But she is really mostly kind of charity for the reallly unpopular kids. She dances with them at dances and pretty much dedicates herself to that. Well, I told her best friend about how I liked her (what possesed me to do that, i dont know) So I have no idea how to handle this. Her friends might alienate her as people have done with others i'd liked. A while ago, but still. I cant be sure how she will react, although i suppose that keep me from doing a lot of things.
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You can tell your friends to tell her. You can tell one of her friends because probably the girl you like's friend WILL tell her...that's how girls are. You can simply tell her yourself...don't worry how she will react and JUST DO IT
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wow darlin...you got yourself in over your head. NO IM JUST KIDDING! the least she can do is say she just likes you as a friend. but now that we have that out of the way...she could really like you too. My suggestion is don't be so worried about it. Everything happens for a reason. Some people were NOT meant to be. And others were. It's funny how life works isn't it. But don't be so worrisome. It'll all work out for the best. It may not seem like it at the time but it will. Maybe she has a sister? jk jk jk! Good Luck.
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hi
so what if your unpopular...
if she likes you for who your are and you like her for who she is whats the problem?
you say she dedicates herself to the unpopular kids? well if u was unpopular wouldn't she be "dedicating" herself to you?
your only 13, you've got so many more years to worry about girls n that kinda stuff, think bout the future, i know this feeling is here and now but what about a few months down the line? will you still have the same feelings?
anyway why dont you ask her best friend what she said about you when she found out you liked her?
sorry, i can't think of anything else to write
good luck x x x
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Instead of telling her best friend, tell her. Show her that you like her. Do something special for her on Valentine's Day. Let her see that you are not one of the people that's just a charity.
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Why you told this girls friend that you like this girl is beyond me my only thinking is that you didnt have the courage to tell this girl yourself. maybe i am wrong, do yourself a favor quit stalling and tell this girl you think she is amazing and go from there but remember its all a game dont act to obssessed with her.. girls dont like that in a guy for some reason :-d. Something like this does not require analyzation and contemplation, its just a girl.
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