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jerk or what?
ok a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and so he was really sad, but i wanted to move on with my life.
So then just a couple of days ago i asked him," hey are you pissed at me or mad or something?
and so he's all like " y" and im like " because after we broke up you said we could be friends, and now you not talking to me at all and your friends are still acting like jerks to me" so then he's like " we'll since you dumped me why should i talk to you and do you like calling my friends jerks"
ok His friends are complete jerks to me..and i never meant to hurt him badly, i still want to be friends, he is just not talking it.
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I'm sure he isn't really trying to be a jerk. He's probably acting like this because he was hurt when you broke up with him, and he still is. But, that doesn't give him the right to treat you the way he seems to be treating you. He is being immature (gee, a teenage boy being immature, never would have thought that would happen) Don't let his immaturity bring you down. Try to ignore it until he is ready to grow up a little more and be friends again.
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When someone is hurt, doens't matter if you want to have something like that work out or not, it might not because of what you once had with him. As for the friends, they have their own mind so that you can't really do much about. I would say that if he told you, you could be friends, it was because he was just trying to be nice. If you were ready to move on with your life, then i'd say let him go and if he decides he can handle talking to you and just being a friend he will let you know.
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