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I Would Like Some Opinions Please
I'll just start off by saying that I am never the girl that the guys go for right away. And I am really getting sick and tired of it.
There was once this guy that I worked with (whom I am still trying to get over and forget). Every shift together, we flirted like crazy. And I usually NEVER flirt with some one I like; I usually just get really quiet with them and blush if I do talk to them (I'm extremly shy). But with him, I didn't feel like cowering away. I talked, found out his music interest, and all kinds of stuff like that. We have a lot in common, he is an extremly nice person, and is very good looking. I think the only downside was him doing pot; but i could live with that. Anyway, one day I found out that he had given his two weeks notice, because he didn't have any time for work. Fortunately his last shift was a shift that I worked on. I had decided that it would be the time when I told him how I felt. But get this, I had a customer, and the "speech" that I had planned to tell him was very long. So he just walked out.
Later that night, I decided that I needed to tell him, or there was no chance of anything happening between us. Because of the fact that I didn't have his phone number, and didn't live anywhere near him, my only choice was to tell him over Nexopia (online community type of thing).
It was VERY hard for me to do, because I am not an open person when it comes to feelings. So all he had to say back to me was, "Oh, that's so wierd; I thought you disliked me."
I was so disappointed, so I asked him if he liked me and all he had to say was, "I'm actually not sure."
I would like to know what on earth he meant by that. How do you NOT know?
So thanks for reading. I didn't plan on it being this long. Sorry.
Thanks for your replies.
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If I were you I would write to him over that Nextopia thingie "I don't usually tell guys I like them so it was kind of hard for me. And if you don't like me I understand. I'd just kind of want to know cause I don't want 2 wonder things. So um here's my #, I hope you'll call me."
About what he said... he didn't say "I'm sorry but I just like you as a friend" so hope isn't lost yet. I think that what happened is that he didn't think you liked him that way so he probably didn't give you guys too much thought.
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Thing like this can mean alot of things maybe he just doesnt want to open up right away or maybe he opened up to someone before and it didnt work out and he was left heartbroken. Anyway try talking to him again and ask him what he means by h dont know.Hope ive helped.;)
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