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My best friend in the whole world is flurting wih my boyfriend.What should i do
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Talk to them, separately.
Your best friend might just be one of those people who flirts with everyone (or at least a lot of people) and you never caught on until she was flirting with your boyfriend. Give her the benefit of the doubt here, especially since she's your "best friend in the whole world". Mention that she's been getting flirty around your boyfriend, and that it bothers you. Like I said she might not even realize she's doing it.
If she continues, talk to your boyfriend. Say that you've noticed your friend flirting with him, and it's making you uncomfortable, because she might have other motives than harmless flirting [say this only if your friend's flirting is intentional]
Otherwise, just try and let it go. It's human nature to be flirty, at least most of my friends are like this. Trust is important in a relationship and you should be able to trust your boyfriend.
-LM
[16/f]
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Talk to your boyfriend and friend about it. I'd go to your boyfriend first. Don't make it a huge thing, just bring it up lightly and ask him what he thinks about it. Say something like, "Hey, did you notice so and so was kind of flirting with you?"
Then, talk to your best friend about it. Tell her it's bothering you, and that you'd like her to stop. If she really is your "best friend in the whole world", she'll understand and cut it out.
-Laura. (16-f)
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I think you should most definitely do something about this! Tell your friend that you don't find it right to flirt with your boyfriend, especially because that is YOUR boyfriend, and the two of you are best friends! Talk to her and tell her how you feel!
As for your boyfriend, just tell him how you feel about this situation, tell him she keeps flirting with him and you don't like it. Some guys really just don't see it when someone flirts with them, so just be straight forward and tell him.
Ask Venzuela
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Nothing.
Starting something will make things worse than its worth, even if she is truly flirting with him.
Your most likely being a little protective of your relationship and are jumping to conclusions. Its totally natural, especially if you really feel something for the guy. You simply don't want to lose him. But that doesn't mean you should think your best friend is flirting with him.
Just keep an eye on them, and watch what he does. Hes the one you should be more worried about than your friend, just cause hes a guy, if you know what I mean.
Though if it leads to unmistakable signs of him cheating, go ahead and jump to any conclusion you want and pray you can hold yourself back enough not to kill him.
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