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wat a mess im in
okay well i met this guy like .. 2 months ago .. well i had been VERY hurt before & to b perfectly honest.. i didnt have much interest in this kid i was mad & wanted to leev my house so i told em to come get me liddle did i kno wat was happening.. well we ended up hittin it off we were perfect for eachother.. weird eh? .. well we ended up kissing & it just all felt right.. well still i was worried of my image at school cuz it was liek a complete random hook up & wat not.. well we ended up gettin together.. & all was GREAT i loved being with him & he always said the right things & wat not well one night to much liquior & sweet talkin led to sex.. i was SO SO SO scared to open up like i HAD A HUGE TALK with him the night before & hes liek u gota trust me babe im different i promise.. & i bought it all well next day.. we broke up i culdnt figure it out he swore he stillw anted to b with me he juss needed to think i culdnt figure out wat i did that was oh so wrong but i dont kno.. well he invited me over that night nothin reallty changed we still kissed & stuff.. school eh okay i guess kinda embaressed but okay i guess well we spent the next month off & on till i got so fed up with i ignored him more & more then one random night he came back & told me he wanted to b together & he was really sorry bout it here we go again all up hill.. he called em everynight & called me baby & there i was fallen again.. & i was so ready to be his.. well i went to his house a few days later.. & he told me he was in love with me i didnt say anything i thought he was jokin but i juss sat there so he walked off then no lie 5 minutes later & he told em he didnt like me at all.. so there i was cryin hurt cunfused & it didnt get much better a few calls & kisses still back to the start,, well then it got good again sorta.. we were supposed to hang out & i was so totally happy all day a HUGE smile ! well then he text me & said dotn ever talk to me again... & supposevly one of my guy friends said i promised i wuldnt talkt o him & now he wont talk to me & he said "i want nothin between us juss friends i cant deal with you" so i spent the entire night cryin i didnt go to school i culdnt face him i cant let go im stuck i have no idea wat im doing so wrong && i love him alot .. i really do it sounds dumb but i do & he was juss in a long relationship & the girl broke his heart so i feel terrible liek i cant amount to her i wana juss show him i love him & i wana b okay.. but i cant.. & i kno he'll coem back but i cant do it again & he leaves at the end of the year .. so im screwed i just wish i never met him.. im sorry this is long but i need someone out there to help me.. & sayin "get ocver it" wont work ive tried so so so hard.. i love him i need something better.. thanx.......
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ok you do need somthin betta i really think he mite have been using you but i donno if you want to get over him you first get rid of evrything that reminds you of him then call him tell him that it is over and say it like you mean it then spend a day shopping or pampering yourself you deserve it then talk to your friend you mite want to ask there advice then find a really hot guy and go on a date wit him i promise you you will forget all about the other guy BUT one thing you CAN'T do you cannot compare your other guys that you date to the one you THINK you LOVE wait on the rite guy he will come this happend for a reason it mite just be a good situation in disguise hope i helped
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You're right. You're not just going to get over him cuz you say so. You love him and you want to be with him, but he doesn't love you, he may say so, but he's not telling the truth. If he loved you, he wouldn't jerk you around like this. It's not fair for you to love him so much, and for him to take advantage of that everytome he's lonely. He;s using you, and as much as i hate to say it (and you probably hate hearing it), you do need to get over it. There are other guys, better guys out there, who will treat you right, but if you keep getting back with Mr. Wrong, you'll never find them.
Hope I helped
----> Maureen
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This guy seems to be confused, which is leading you to be confused. Woah. That's a lot of off and on. It can't be healthy, your going to get sick. He keeps jerking you around. I know you've heard it so many times before, "get over it" and you're right, it's not that easy. You should talk to him and ask him why he keeps pushing you aside and then changes his mind, over and over. Let him know that it is hurting you and how mind boggling it is. He will either want you back, turn you away or feel bad and just want to be your friend. You're going to have to be prepared for all of them. Love is a silly thing but you know what if he really loved you he wouldn't do what he's been doing. Try not to dwell on it too long if things stay sour, theres nothing worse than a broken heart. Good luck.
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Well.. everything seemed to be going great at first for you.. you just got out of a really bad break up and all of a sudden *Mr. Perfect* came around - or so you thought.. It's great that you two hit it off and you didn't stay just "friends with benefits" but you started dating.. but from my own VERY VERY similar situation 6 months ago (which of course im still not over and highly doubt I ever will be) I think your first mistake was giving it up to him.. i don't know how long you two were dating before you had sex but it couldn't of been that long.. and that right there wasn't great.. you need to make guys want and crave you by not going that far with them until you know they TRULY love you.. not just act like it.. and that could be why he left.. he got what he wanted and now was moving on to his next victim.. Now, i don't believe he really needed to "figure things out first" he just sounded like he used you.. yet he came back.. and that could very much mean he's just in need of getting "pleasured" again.. or maybe losing you showed him he really did have feelings for you.. THEN you went through this whole on off again stage.. i think to figure out if he TRULY does "love" you in any way.. you need to start ACTING like you're over him instead of showing how much he's hurting you.. ignore him and his calls.. when he asks you over tell him you'll see and then later tell him you have other plans - maybe some other time.. tell him these made up stories how you ALMOST hooked up with some random guy or how you were flirting all night with him.. that should make him feel like he has competition and could lose you to this other guy.. and because you know he'll come back don't feel like you'll be pushing him away with these little acts.. the clingier you seem the more he's going to back off -- the more you act like you don't want him the more he's going to crave you again.. try it and see what happens..
I hope I helped some <33
Lindsey
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His just messing with your emotions.... what ever you do, however it must hurt DON'T go back to him... this isn't a healthy relationship! You deserve sooooooo much better!! Try moving on, find another guy (someone cute, sexy, funny) fall inlove all over with another guy! ignore any calls, text messages (dont even read the message just delete it if you see its from him) from that guy, get rid of all his stuff or anything that reminds you of that guy... cry, feel bad, miss him but think of all the bad stuff he has put you trough all the hurt... go out with girlfriends .... This guy is only going to hurt you again!
time heals all wounds!
You will get over him!
Hope I helped and good luck!!
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