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how can i get away
okay so im 13 female and im so sick of one of my friends. she get on my last nerve all the time and wont stop calling me. how do i tell her i want space without being rude?
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I know exactly how it feels. She drives ya nuts and you just wanna tell her but you don't wanna tell her. If she is annoying you just say "soinso, I'm not trying to be mean, but could you just give me a little bit of space." or ask her to maybe take a break. Maybe she wants attention, do you ever call her? If you don't, maybe you could pick up the phone once in a while. Or say to her, "I love talking to you on the phone, but I don't have time to talk everyday." Something like that. I hope it works out!
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Well what you want to do, is be honest with her, but dont do it in front of everyone. You should say well i have beenn thinkning and i think i need my space, dont take it the wrong way, if you said somethinglike that then i am sure you friend would agree with you and give you a little space, and if she doesnt then, jsut let her get mad and that will give you your space, and then when you are ready to be good friends again make up!!
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You should tell your friend that she is bothering you. Tell her that you do need your personal space and that she needs to call you less. You shouldn't have to compramize your happieness to spare being rude. If she dosn't know that her behvior is annoying she will do it to other people to. They might not be as concerend with her feelings and they could realy hurt her feelings. It could be benificial just to be straight and tell her if you care about her feelings.
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flat out tell her. that's the only way. you don't want to play games with her because then she'll probably stick with it & all. juss be honest & she'll probably understand that. i wouldn't consider it as rude because you aren't lying & you're telling her how you feel. juss don't use mean words. be nice & express how you feel about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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Hey,
I have the same problem with my friend accept she's going out with my ex-boyfriend, that she flirts with non-stop. What I would do is call her every second of her life and wait for her to tell you to give her some space, its called Reverse Physcology. If thats even how you spell it. But anyways it will work. Just talk her butt off and sooner or later she will give out! :-).
-GD
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