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Asking a girl out
I have known this girl since kindergarden right. Now we are in 8th grade and for some reason, this year i really seem to like her. I mean she is nice, funny, smart, and very beautiful. How can i not like her. But the problem is, i have trouble finding the courage to ask her out. I am good with girls in the sense of friendship, but when it comes to love life, im a mess. I am 14 and she is 13. i am 11 months older than her but i really dont see that as an issue. But i always get nervous when i tcomes to askig a girl out nd i did it once, she said ye, than rejeted me the next day. (that was a different girl). Is it normal to be that nervous? Oh and one more thing, what do you ask when you want to ask her out. I really am not good with "pick-up" line. Thanks
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Hi there :o) well tell her that you have grown to like her more than a friend and you would love to go out with her.... tell her exactly what you told us "she is nice, funny, smart and very beautiful"
Invite her to a movie and some pizza, give her a compliment like for example you like her dress, shirt or whatever. And just have fun, don't be to nervouse!!
:o) hope I helped and GOODLUCK!!! whishing you the best
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Don't use pickup lines. They're dumb. Tell her how you feel and then ask if she'd like to go <insert activity of choice> on <insert day or time of choice>
Yes it's normal to be nervous.
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It doesn't need to be a big dramatic thing if you don't want it to be. If you feel comfortable with her, and know how she feels, it will feel like nothing. How to get more comfortable?
Spend more time with her. Talk to her. We all get nervous, but you're better off really knowing her.
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You don't need a pick-up line. In fact, pick-up lines are cheesy and unnecessary. Just be yourself, engage her in some idle conversation and ask her out at the appropriate moment. Don't worry about being nervous, by the way. EVERYBODY goes through the same experience, regardless of whether it's a guy or girl involved.
Oh, and rejection is not something to be feared. You'll have to deal with it in life from time to time and you need to steel your nerves somehow, right?
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Ok, so here's the deal. I'm 16 and I've asked girls out before. The best thing to do is just talk to her. Get into a conversation. Don't hit on her too much, just talk about anything. Then when the moments right just say, "Hey, I was wondering if I could get your number and maybe we could talk a little more." Then if she gives it to you call her and just talk. Just ask what she's doing, how her day was, all that good stuff. Talk to her a few nights on the phone, and then if it's going well, ask her if she wants to go to the movies or something. It's normal to be nervous, but eventually that goes away with time. Go for it brother. Good luck.
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