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I hate to start a question with "there's this guy" but unfortunately that is pretty much what this is about so i'll make it as brief as possible: I like him very much, we were pretty close a few months ago (just friends, we're both attached). Nowadays we talk fairly sporadically and when we do it feels so mundane and guarded compared to what we used to have. I feel like he's deliberately shutting me out (though he still says to me and others that i am one of his best friends) and i've no idea why. It's basically like we've had a friendship in reverse-knowing each other very well almost immediately and now moving backwards into the realm of the casual and formal.
I can't talk to him about it because he would get very uncomfortable and fob me off. This si a pretty pathetic problem but it's bothering and hurting me a lot. I just want to know what the hell he wants from me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Conversations are guarded and you're afraid he's shutting you out, yet you're afraid to talk to him about it because it might make him uncomfortable. Trust me, if this is true you've got nothing to lose, he's already uncomfortable. If you're sure it's more than two people just changing and growing distant as most people eventually do, then talk to him about it. There's always a reason and hardly ever a different way of figuring that reason out.
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